my friends know I like this girl, and that im really shy. One of my friends was over at my house, and I was talking to her online. I had to go help my grandma do something, so I left the room, and while I was gone, my friend got online and told her that I liked her, because he thought I was too shy and probably wouldnt say anything. while I was sort of mad because he told her, I was kinda releieved that she knew. he had sent the messages under my screen name, so the windows were still up when I got back, I saw that she hadnt said anything so I decided to message her to see what she thought. heres the coversation, while brief, extremely confusing to me.
me:hey
away message:Packing!! :D (shes visiting the college shes going to)
her:hey!
me:whats up
her:nm just finishing up some packing what about you?
me:i have to talk to you about something....
her:yes?
me:well i hda xxxx tell yiu earlier and i dont know how to say it im really shy but i like you and i didnt know how 2 tell you
me:had**
me:u there
her:yup and.. i dont know what to say..
me:I dont know...
me:this is so awkward im gonna kill him
her:nah its ok!
her:dont worry about it!
me:?????????????/
her:feeling awkward!
me:yea
her:well i must go.. my airplane awaits me! ill talk to you later!
me:ok bye talk to you when you get bac
what does she mean by dont worry about it? I kinda wish the conversation didnt end so fast, but she had to go. im confused by her reaction, because I dont know how she feels about it.
Additional info, added Saturday July 5 2008, 3:47 pm: a couple of days later, she just popped up on the instant messenger, and was talking to me like normal, like nothing had ever happened. Im guessing that means she just wants to be friends, which is cool too.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Hustle_Rose answered Thursday July 3 2008, 5:57 am: I kind of agree with the last person. It's hard to draw conclusions from such a short conversation, but she seems pretty distant. I know that if someone I like admits to liking me, I'm really eager to discuss it. The fact that she didn't have a strong response probably means that she doesn't have any strong feelings.
She seems to be kind of dodging the subject to avoid hurting you.
BUT like I said, a message that short is pretty hard to read into, so we could both be wrong! When you get a chance, try to discuss it with her for real. [ Hustle_Rose's advice column | Ask Hustle_Rose A Question ]
Ava29 answered Thursday July 3 2008, 1:23 am: I'm really not trying to be mean but, just from what I read, she really doesn't seem to be that into you. Being a girl, I've actually been in a situation like that, except I didn't leave the guy hanging the way she left you hanging. But, girls tend to ignore things sometimes when they don't want to be mean or hurt someone (NOT all girls though so please no one get offended.) I just really think that if she really liked you back she would definitely say something and seem more excited. And, I could be TOTALLY off here, and I don't want to seem mean, but my opinion is that I think it'd be best if you tried to find another girl. One that won't ignore you when you tell her how you feel. I hope this helps. [ Ava29's advice column | Ask Ava29 A Question ]
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