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Flirting ;)
Posted Tuesday July 8 2008, 2:25 pm
what are the best most effective yet relatively subtly ways to flirt?? i kno to be myself and stuff but i want to get even better at flirting and expand my style/ways of flirting. ;) thanks!!
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ive lost everything that is important to me.
Posted Tuesday July 8 2008, 5:59 am
well, this is going to be really long and confusing. so, reader beware, you're in for confusion. here goes:
so, my boyfriend and i have problems like every other couple in this world. but these problems arent about cheating or not calling or ignorance or neglect. these problems are all caused by me. to him, i dont share enough of my thoughts. and thats simply because i dont want to run him off. but thats all over with, because i did.
we were talking on aim earlier and it was getting pretty heated. i told him i didnt mean to hurt him, but i knew i was. i asked him why he was so upset, and he said it was because i dont trust him. but i do! i trust him with my whole heart, but like i said. there are just some thin...
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good conversations
Posted Tuesday July 8 2008, 3:05 am
16 f
How do you keep a conversation going with a boy when you've already talked about everything there is to talk about? Like me and him will be talking about something random but then after 5 minutes it'll get really quiet or we'll just stopp talking and I'm really interested in him but sometimes its so hard to keep the conversation from getting akward what are some things I could do to keep us talking?
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confusedd about him
Posted Tuesday July 8 2008, 2:44 am
16 f
so my friend thought itd be a good idea to hook me up with one of her best guy friends. She introduced us and we started talking over AIM and soon on the phone and then finally we met in person . Well everything was going so good for the first 2 weeks that we were talking he'd call me everyday in the morning and just before he'd go to sleep until the third week comes around and he starts acting a little weird...he'd call me less or sometimes not even call me at all.....wed barely see each other because he'd make up excuses not 2. And so I got the courage to ask him why all the changes I even poured my feelings out to him and all he said to me was "I don't know I like you but I don't know" can anyone tell me wh...
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I love him but i never get to see him :(
Posted Tuesday July 8 2008, 2:26 am
K, so. I have the best boyfriend i could ever want. the only problem is that i hardly ever get to see him because he has baseball so much and his parents are all strict and crap. I really dont want to break up with him but its really kind of pointless if im missing him 75% of the time and seeing him 25% of the time. what should i do?
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HOW DO I LET THIS GO?
Posted Tuesday July 8 2008, 2:10 am
hey im 17/F my boyfriend is 20. well i kind of always had this question in my mind. before i started going out with my boyfriend this other girl shes also 17/F was also flirting with him, and so was i. time passed and he picked her. i stoped talking to him because i was mad that he did that to me. not even a month later he broke up with her an started flirting with me again and we started going out. I have always felt like mad inside ive told him why did he pick her but all he says is dat well his aunt had basically hoocked them up and he was basically already going out with her when he was talking to me. That he never really liked her. Do you guys think thats the reasoning or he just liked her better? We have been together for 2 years now ...
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my best friend??
Posted Tuesday July 8 2008, 1:57 am
well i like my best guy friend. i dont know what to do tho because he acts like he likes me only as a best friend but i think maybe thats just because of our friendship. like i dont know if he even sees me as a possibility and i just want to be a possibility instead of off limits. our families are extremely close--like his family is my family so it might be weird if we dated especially when we broke up. i dont know what to do because i dont like REALLY like him but hes exactly the type of guy i want to date...and i do like him somewhat. and i reeally want him to like me. how can i flirt subtly but like enough that he gets the hint and what if he only likes me as a friend?? without asking him directly what are some ways i could find out what...
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CONFUSED??? HELPPPP
Posted Tuesday July 8 2008, 1:15 am
HEY,
well okay i have an awsome boyfriend. I love him to death, im really happy with him. I seriously have strong feelings for him, but here is the thing an old love has returned to town and i kind of been thinking about him. I dont want to mess up my relationship of 2 years with my boyfriend. Is it wrong what i feel, should i pay any attention to this feelings. Should i tell my boyfriend anything???? HELP.
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Horny boyfriend ):
Posted Tuesday July 8 2008, 1:06 am
I really love my boyfriend weve been going out for over a year now and he never stops telling me he loves me, his friends tell him hes whipped all the time and they make fun of him because he never even looks at other girls anymore.the problem is, like many other boys he is really horny and yeah i like it sometimes when im in the mood for it but he always wants to do something like sometimes i dont even wanna make out i just want to lay with him.I dont no how to tell him this with out him getting upset because he gets upset easily and i dont wnt to insult him but idk how to say i dont always like him being that way. can some one please help me out
thanks<3
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does he like me?! men are so confusing.
Posted Tuesday July 8 2008, 1:04 am
I work in retail and I feel like my coworker has been flirting with me..and I may have been subconsciously doing it also.
He's an overall friendly/funny guy so he's nice to everyone but I feel like he approaches me and makes an effort to talk to me more.
He approached me today to tell me the DUMBEST joke...and I can't believe I started cracking up. He always seems to tease me and makes fun of me esp when I do something wrong (but he smiles while he says he...and it's not harsh; it actually makes me laugh). He doesnt tease anyone else as much. I didn't want to think that he was flirting with me but I started being observant to see if he was treating my other cute coworker females that way...and he doesn't..It seems like he puts...
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Sexually and mentally abusive boyfriend
Posted Monday July 7 2008, 11:43 pm
This past year, I was in an abusive relationship you could say. I liked him for some reason, and so my friend set us up. Well, nobody at my school approved and I couldn't understand why. Until...well, apparently he'd had a reputation for sexually abusing girlfriends. And I was next? Whenever we'd go anywhere, he'd sit way too close. Hold me way way uncomfortably tight. He'd smell my hair and my face when I wasn't looking. This was the first week of our relationship. He was too intense, too much. I felt overwhelmed. And I went in to kiss him gently once, but the next thing I know we were making out. I'd never made out with anyone before and I didn't like it at all. It just felt empty and yet invasive and disgusting. And I tried really really...
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Hold it in, or take a chance? Confused with my emotions
Posted Monday July 7 2008, 11:17 pm
Well, to start I'm a guy, 17 years old, and just got out of a year and 2 month long relationship two months ago. Well about a month ago one of my best friends and I decided to hang out at the lake after dark. We were just talking (she had just gotten out of a very similar relationship) and we were just there for each other. Well we went back to her car and were still talking when she started saying she was un comfortable. So I offered to cuddle, and we did. Well on the way home we were holding hands, and asking each other why we hadn't seen/felt this before. Then in my driveway we kissed, and she kissed my neck to just mess w/ me. It felt right in all honesty. Well we texted til 3 in the morning, and resumed the net day. We decided to hang ...
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My Best Friend
Posted Monday July 7 2008, 11:15 pm
well i like my best friend and i dont know what to do. i only like him a little but the thing is i really want him to like me. but i dont know if he even sees me as a possibility. what should i do? and how do i flirt with him but not make things weird because i dont want to make things weird between us and what if he doesnt like me? please help!! and what signs would give off if he was interested in me or at least saw me as a possibility? i will take all the advice i can get or any of these questions!! please help!!!!! :)
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helppp ! (guys i need your prospective too for this one )
Posted Monday July 7 2008, 10:16 pm
hi . im 13 years old . and ima girl if you dont know . soo i like this guy .. :) and i want him to notice me and i have him on myspace as a friend and i wanna comment him but i think that would be a little strange because he dosent know me but he dose know my friend and she said she would hook me up with him and i wanna get to be friendly with him without being a wierdo (lmao) . so anways how do i approche him ?
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do i let it happen
Posted Monday July 7 2008, 9:06 pm
ok well as usal guy problems.the guy gthat i asked a question to in my last thing broke up with my friend for me and she nos it she isnt mad because she wants me to be happy do i go out with him or make sure they go back out?
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married and in love with someone else
Posted Monday July 7 2008, 8:28 pm
I'm married (have been for 5 years) and I recently ran into my old high school flame. I was crazy about him but it didn't work out because he moved away. He is married now as well (but not happily). We decided to secretly meet up and catch up on old times. Since then we have been talking a lot and he says he thinks he is falling in love with me and he wants to leave his wife. He asked me if I would leave my husband for him. Truthfully I have thought about it. He says he thinks it is meant to be, and in a way I do too. I'm just not sure what to do. I love my husband but I don't think I'm in love with him anymore. I'm just not sure if I would be making a mistake. I just need some advice without being judged.
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Guy friend and ex-fiances...
Posted Monday July 7 2008, 7:52 pm
Names Gina, 15.f. Ill get straight to the point..Theres this guy(17 yrs old) and I started talking to him at the beginning of july. I realize that it has not been a long time since we have started talking. He was apparently engaged before..But i think she left him for another guy. Well anyways, I keep bringing her up and he started crying once on the phone with me..I really try not to bring her up but its involuntary. Any suggestions?
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Second thoughts on relationship.
Posted Monday July 7 2008, 5:33 pm
I like a guy who has a girlfriend. I actually have a boyfriend. Whenever I am around the other guy I'm happy and flirty. When I'm around my boyfriend I feel tired and cranky. I still have some feelings for him, but sometimes I just don't. The other guy likes me a lot to but he has a girlfriend who he lives with. What should I do? Even if I can't be with the other guy, what should I do about my boyfriend?
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he confuses me
Posted Monday July 7 2008, 3:53 pm
ok my friend keeps saying he likes me and he is going out with my friend she is clueless on this whole ordeal and i really like the guy and this always happens to me and hes telling me to wait for him for like 5 more months but he is wanting to kiss me makeout with me hold hands etc. and i just dont no if i should tell the friend or not and should i tell him i loe him to cause i kinda do.
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Girls Girls Girls
Posted Monday July 7 2008, 1:11 pm
Okay, I really need help with this one. I've been dating my boyfriend now for two years. Lately, every time we walk around he's constantly staring at every girl that walks by. I had said something to him. (at this time we were currently on vacation in Atlantic City. So I said to him, If yu here trying to have a good time with me, then why are yu paying attention to so many others. He went off on me and starting calling me imature and stuff. Well I decided I'll just ignore it when he looks, I mean he has been with me and only me for two years. But the other day, we were at Giant and I was looking at this one dude. He saw me and kept saying I was staring at him and crap. He was laughin about it tryin to make it seem like he really didnt care,...
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