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CONFUSED??? HELPPPP
HEY,
well okay i have an awsome boyfriend. I love him to death, im really happy with him. I seriously have strong feelings for him, but here is the thing an old love has returned to town and i kind of been thinking about him. I dont want to mess up my relationship of 2 years with my boyfriend. Is it wrong what i feel, should i pay any attention to this feelings. Should i tell my boyfriend anything???? HELP.
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What you're feeling is perfectly normal. You're remembering the past relationship you once had with your old boyfriend, and I'm assuming these are good memories. It's totally fine to look back on it and think fondly of him [breakups don't have to end in you hating each other] but he's your ex for a reason, and you 'love your boyfriend to death' so stay with him. No need to mess anything up over what happened in the past, right? =]
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It's not at all wrong to still have feelings about your ex, or to think about him. However it is wrong to follow through with those feelings. The thing about relationships is you have to give up feelings for guys so you can be with JUST one guy. My advice to you would be to #1 just relax because it's normal. #2 try and think about why you broke up, and why it's better with your current boyfriend and how much you love him. #3 Unless you're actually considering leaving your current boyfriend (which it sounds like you're not which is good) don't tell him about these feelings. It's fine to have feelings for your ex but there are some things your boyfriend just doesnt need to know. He probably doesn't WANT to know about your ex boyfriend thoughts either. So just lay low and remember how much you love your boyfriend.
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