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helppp ! (guys i need your prospective too for this one )
hi . im 13 years old . and ima girl if you dont know . soo i like this guy .. :) and i want him to notice me and i have him on myspace as a friend and i wanna comment him but i think that would be a little strange because he dosent know me but he dose know my friend and she said she would hook me up with him and i wanna get to be friendly with him without being a wierdo (lmao) . so anways how do i approche him ?
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I'd comment him and say something like, "Hi, I'm [name]. You know my friend [name] and she said you and I would get along well if we got to know each other." or something along those lines.
Or, perhaps you can have your friend arrange for all 3 of you to do something together so you can get to know him.
Like Jack said below, remember to BE YOURSELF. =]
-Laura. (16-f)
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I think you should get your friend to invite him to a party, get together, ect. And then at this party she can introduce you and you two can talk and get to know each other. this will make it not so strange to comment on his my space. Also chat with on myspace, evertime there is a party hang out with him, let him get to know you. If things don't go awywhere beside "Friends" in like maybe a couple weeks or so, than go ahead and ask him out. Or before you do that you can get your friend to ask him if he likes ect.
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The best way to attract a guy is to be yourself. If you try to change yourself just to get a boyfriend [especially at your age]- you'll just end up with someone who only likes you for what you've become- not who you are. If you be yourself- and don't change- you'll attract more guys who actually care about your personality rather than just your looks.
I myself like any type of girl. I honestly don't judge looks as much as I do personality. If a girl is absolutely stunningly beautiful, but she's a bitch- why would I like her? What would our relationship be? What would we talk about? Her latest hair extensions? Yeah- that would be REALLY nice *Sarcasm: Party of one!*...
If a girl has a really nice personality- and she's really outgoing and sweet and nice and smart- and she's not necessarily the best looking girl- but she's not super unattractive- then I'll most likely want to date her over the beautiful bitch.
Do you get what I'm saying? If you let guys see your personality more than your looks- you'll end up with someone great. Trust me- most guys prefer personality over looks- they just don't know it yet =].
The best way to approach him is to, like I said above, is to be yourself. Talk as if he were one of your friends. As in, just be calm and relaxed about it. Start a conversation with him like you would with your friends. And I don't think it's weird to talk to him over myspace. A lot of people break the ice in friendships over the internet, to be honest. =]
--Jack
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