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HOW DO I LET THIS GO?
hey im 17/F my boyfriend is 20. well i kind of always had this question in my mind. before i started going out with my boyfriend this other girl shes also 17/F was also flirting with him, and so was i. time passed and he picked her. i stoped talking to him because i was mad that he did that to me. not even a month later he broke up with her an started flirting with me again and we started going out. I have always felt like mad inside ive told him why did he pick her but all he says is dat well his aunt had basically hoocked them up and he was basically already going out with her when he was talking to me. That he never really liked her. Do you guys think thats the reasoning or he just liked her better? We have been together for 2 years now and i just cant let that go. YOu guys understand rite? He made me feel like seconds. How do i let this go?? she is his aunts by marriages niece. so i will have to see her forever shes part of the family.
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He stayed with this girl for about a month but he has stayed with you for two years! That should not make you feel like seconds it should reassure you. You do not stay with some one for that long if you don't really like them.
You need to just accept that this girl was his past and that the circumstances then made him go out with her first but he came back to you and has stayed with you. Just let go of the past. Maybe talk to him about it as well. It may help.
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i dont know, someone doesnt stay with someone for two years if it didnt mean anything. sounds like hes crazy about you. he may have liked girlie in the beginning, but now its all about you.
maybe since girlie is part of the family, you could ask her where things went wrong with she and he. if she says that she dumped him, you may have been a backup plan(which is simply awful) but if he dumped her, maybe he really did like you more(which is obviously a GOOD THING)
it sounds as if you have asked dude about this before, so you cant get much more out of that. as soon as you ask girlie, this should be off your mind. if it isnt, just spend time with him and just keep in mind. she doesnt matter anymore. its all you.
take care! :)
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