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he confuses me
ok my friend keeps saying he likes me and he is going out with my friend she is clueless on this whole ordeal and i really like the guy and this always happens to me and hes telling me to wait for him for like 5 more months but he is wanting to kiss me makeout with me hold hands etc. and i just dont no if i should tell the friend or not and should i tell him i loe him to cause i kinda do.
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This is very simple, he's keeping you on the line as back up. If he can't get what he wants from your friend, he'll move on to you. So if 5 months go by and she hasn't given him sex, he'll give you six months maybe and if you don't give him sex by then, he'll move on to the next girl.
I don't know how old you are, but I do know you are not ready to date. Learn, watch, know yourself and pay attention to what goes on around you. When you don't have to ask people these questions and you can identify the different types of guys, (Like who's a predictor and who's honestly looking for a friend), then start dating in a bit more informed manner.
Please take care dear one and remember, knowledge is your best protection.
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I'm sorry to say this but going out with him would be degrading on your part. I mean he has a girlfriend who you are friends with, hes willing to cheat on a girl-which says a lot about the kind of relationship he is capable of having, and he tells you to wait 5 months! It's really unfortunate that you fell for this guy and now you have to deal with those feelings, but I don't even think this guy is mature enough to handle a relationship. Don't add all this extra pressure on to your life by making out with the guy or holding his hand. You deserve better than that and you should know it..
And if you decide not to go for him, which would be a good choice, then you might also want to talk to your friend about the kind of boyfriend she has. I think she should know.
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Ok, so what is your question exactly? What should you do?
I don't think you should get involved with this guy. He has a girlfriend, and not just any girlfriend, but your FRIEND. You're willing to steal your friend's boyfriend? Not a good plan,
Plus, if he's telling you to wait 5 months, he obviously doesn't care about you as much as you're implying that you think he does. Sorry if that was harsh, I just think you'll only end up getting hurt if you get involved with this guy.
I mean, if he does this now with your friend, whose to say he won't do it if the two of you ever did get together? I don't think it's worth it at all =/
-Laura. (16-f)
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1. how good is this friend, to where you dont tell her that her boyfriend wants to be with you??
2. why 5 months?
If he wants to kiss you while going out with your friend, what makes you think in five months (i assume he'll dump her and go out with you then?) he wont do the same thing to you, and do things with other girls? I really dont think he's worth it, and i know you like him, but hes not considering your friend/his girlfriend. If he likes you more, and can see himself with you, he better leave the friend and be with you. I would like for you to be with a guy thats respectful of you and your friends as well, who wont cheat or lie, and I dont know this guy enough, but from what i hear, he isnt the right one for you.
Do what you'd like, but I hope in the end you're happy and think of this friend of yours.
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I don't really see why he says "Wait 5 months" if he really cares about you, but ok.
I wouldn't make out with him or anything like that though since he is dating your friend.
That's a good way to lose a friend, if you get caught with her boyfriend or anyone finds out. The best thing to do would be to talk to him about it and ask Why he wants to wait 5 more months if he really does like you and want to be with you. This also could save your friendship with both of them, yes your friend might get mad that you all start dating... but theres a greater possibility she would get over it faster than you doing stuff with her BF.
You should talk to your "girl" friend about it though so maybe she will understand where your coming from so you could possibly stay friends through this.
Just DON'T go behind your friends back with this, it could ruin your friendship.
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