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confusedd about him
16 f
so my friend thought itd be a good idea to hook me up with one of her best guy friends. She introduced us and we started talking over AIM and soon on the phone and then finally we met in person . Well everything was going so good for the first 2 weeks that we were talking he'd call me everyday in the morning and just before he'd go to sleep until the third week comes around and he starts acting a little weird...he'd call me less or sometimes not even call me at all.....wed barely see each other because he'd make up excuses not 2. And so I got the courage to ask him why all the changes I even poured my feelings out to him and all he said to me was "I don't know I like you but I don't know" can anyone tell me why any boy would say that? I'm just confused as to what hes not sure about? I just want things to go back to the way they were in the beginning.
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There could be a few reasons why he's hesitant. He might have met another girl, he might have just wanted sex from you and nothing else, he just might not be interested. Who knows.
Guys don't like to open up about things. When he responded "I don't know I like you but I don't know", it means he probably has other reasons that he didn't want to tell you. Ask him again, and if he responds the same way, he's not worth fussing over.
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Hey,
Sometimes a new relationship requires a bit of extra effort from both sides. It sounds like he was putting a lot of his heart into it in the beginning and then back off for some reason. Maybe he didn't feel as though his feelings were being reciprocated? Perhaps you need to do some of the "chasing" now, rather then him chasing you. Call him up in the morning and evening and put some more effort into hanging out with him. If after a couple of weeks you still get the same non responsive behavior, hey may simply not be interested anymore. Sometimes that's just the way things work out. Good luck Darl! =]
Sarah.
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