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my life is full of sadness, i have no one to take care of me or support me,


Posted Thursday April 19 2012, 8:59 am

i am from India. i have turned 19 today. i have no one to give me emotional support. i did not need it in my childhood. when i was 15 yrs, i fell in love with my classmate. he is an amazing person. he loves me a lot and takes care of me only when i am in a normal mood. it is only recently that i am realising that he is totally avoiding me when i am tensed. i asked him several times not to avoid me when i am tensed and that i need his support. but he does not understand. today the whole day i have been crying as he did not wish me happy b'day. ii myself called him and asked to wish me but he replied that he won't. i have no one else except him whom i am comfortable with to some extent. i am not able to share this with anyone. i want to commi...

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I will be going for an HIV test this weekend with my girlfriend


Posted Thursday April 19 2012, 2:08 am

Three weeks back i posted a question which i stated i suspected to have been exposed about 11 months back. However i went for an HIV test on that 11th month were i tested negative. I will be going for an HIV test with my girlfried this Saturday. Should i tell her what happend those months back. What if we are positive

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Feeling hungry


Posted Thursday April 19 2012, 1:31 am

I've been feeling hungry all the time lately. I'll eat lunch and feel really full, and then an hour later i'll feel hungry again. its really annoying. why could this be?

17/f

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"Desensitization" due to sexual images..


Posted Wednesday April 18 2012, 11:46 pm

Say someone has seen a lot a lot a lot of porn, and is kinda like... Well, nothing seems to turn them on anymore. And they feel no shame. Nothing affects them.

If they completely stopped viewing it, would they not be "desensitized" anymore after a while? Or is there no regaining that sensitivity? I'm talking mental, like how easy it is to become aroused, not physical.



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bras!


Posted Wednesday April 18 2012, 10:36 pm

hi....i am 13 years old turning 14 in a few months....im in 8th grade..so every friend of mine wears a bra and i dont...not even a training bra...mily friends say i rlly need a bra but i dnt know...my boobs arent that big but you know some times they show through mi shirt...also my mom does not wear bras...maybe like two times a year... i even have friends with d cups....do you think i sould get one...how old were you wem you frst got one....do you think it wuld be wierd to get one witout my mom at the mall..ay advice...thanks

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Pains


Posted Wednesday April 18 2012, 10:18 pm

I have been getting really bad headaches on and off for the past week or so, and my hips hurt kinda my left more than my right. What could this be?
I'm not on my period or anything if that would be an assumption.
17/f

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Low self esteem/ADD ruining my life


Posted Wednesday April 18 2012, 8:44 pm

I am a 19 year old girl and am a freshman in college. Throughout my teenage years I have become more and more insecure about myself, less motivated because of my lack of being able to focus, and pretty much just feel my future is hopeless. I know that deep down I could do something great with my future, but I cannot seem to actually to sit down and do my work. I know that this is no excuse as to why I shouldnt be able to achieve my goals in life, but I honestly really feel that i cant..it is very difficult for me to understand things which is why I guess I hold everything off until the last minute/dont do it. I am a huge procrastinator and sometimes psychically feel incapable of completing a task that I feel i cannot do, even though if i tr...

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Weird habits


Posted Wednesday April 18 2012, 7:33 pm

So, within the last few months ive developed 2 new weird habits that make no sense. I peel off the nail polish on my fingers, as a nervous habit. And i dont know why. If i get started i end up pealing off all of the nail polish on all of my fingers.. no idea why. and the weirdest one is pulling out eyelashes D: not a lot, just like one.. or a few? idk. but sometimes, you get sore eyelashes? and they try to go in your eye and stuff..well when i find those i usually pull the eyelash out so it doesnt bother me anymore. so i find myself finding an eyelash thats bothering me..and pull it out. weird. and idk why.

how can i stop myself from doing these things?

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parents getting divorce because of me! need answer!!!


Posted Wednesday April 18 2012, 7:16 pm

so im 11 and my mom and stepdad are gettin a divorece becuase of me my stepdad says hes giving up on me cuz i dont like him. I have not really liked him the whole 7 years theve been married. And i got in trouble with cops becuase i feel so angry becuase my mom wont listin when i try to talk to her about it. I have cut too and cuz of my stepdad threatining to puch me and hurt me in ways my mom is too in love with him too see it what should i do???

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Posted Wednesday April 18 2012, 7:07 pm

Hey my dad is very mean he says I have my head in my ass a lot and puts me down . I make pretty good grades but he always says I'm a dumbass and tells me I will be digging ditches the rest off my life what should I say or do ?

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legit online job websites


Posted Wednesday April 18 2012, 6:46 pm

I'm 17 and I want a job but my parents won't let me get one since I'm in school and have a baby on the way but I want to help out and be able to provide for my baby too can anyone please tell me about some legit websites to get ajob online to put a little money in my pockets my parents won't mind an online job they just don't want me with a real job rite now.
Thanks for all your help in advance.

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What can I do?


Posted Wednesday April 18 2012, 6:09 pm

I have a boyfriend,we've been dating for almost three years and we really love each other,well a couple of months ago I met this guy who totally fell in love with me,I liked him and I like him,tough, but only as a friend,so now every time I run into him,he looks at me as if I owed him something,it makes me feel like a miserable and horrible person although I know it's not my fault,what can I do with this guy?I wouldn't like to dump him,he's not a bad guy,help?

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Bleaching hair with Clorox Bleach does it work?


Posted Wednesday April 18 2012, 5:31 pm

I was wondering if clorox Bleach works for bleaching your hair or lighting it can anyone tell me I saw a post and someone says it works does it do a good job?

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What song is this?


Posted Wednesday April 18 2012, 4:07 pm

I listened to this song and here are some facts about it. Please tell me what song this is!
1.) It was on this PSP game. It was like DDR
2.) I think it was Kingdom Hearts(song)
3.) It had a bunch of numbers in the title and it said "days" and "weeks" in it. I think it did. Either that or it says "months" and/or "years".

No, it is NOT 365 days by Victoria Justice or anything with just "365 days" as the title. It was on PSP Revolution I think

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Facing up to mistakes, controlling fear


Posted Wednesday April 18 2012, 3:07 pm

Fear has destroyed my life. Made so many stupid mistakes. Is there chance to start again.
I moved to the states 12 years ago , i came on a visa waiver and overstayed. My mum has borderline personality disorder, i so badly wanted to get away from her. I met a guy on the internet, i was in love , visited him in the states and overstayed my waiver. He refused to apply for a adjustment of status for me, so i lived here illegally i was too afraid to go back to england, i had nowhere to go.
We were married. He ended up meeting another girl on the internet (this time from thailand) He broke up with me , we stayed married anyway untill he decided to marry the girl from the internet. We divorced. I stayed here anyway and ended up in a ...

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Makeup Question. Easy.


Posted Wednesday April 18 2012, 1:58 pm

If you use or used MAC and/or Sephora (<-- Makeup4Ever/Smashbox)...
Which was a better coverage?
Which one is better for the skin?
Are there any products you'd recommend?
And which one is worth the money?

So far... i'm looking at Sephora... but idk.

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Injury


Posted Wednesday April 18 2012, 12:38 pm

How do you stay positive and happy when you're injured? I used to be a very happy person, but I currently have carpal tunnel and tendonitis (and a related neck problem). I'm unable to really work (they have me standing greeting people), can't do anything involving repetitive motion, and am in a lot of pain all the time. I'm in physical therapy, so hopefully it'll get better, but how do I stay happy and positive in the meantime? A lot of people think I'm faking it and I just feel so useless all the time. I'm getting really angry and bitter (especially at the way I'm treated by people at work) and it's no good.

-21/f

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does he like me?


Posted Wednesday April 18 2012, 11:43 am

A few months back, a boy from my college started talking to me on facebook. He asked my friend for my name and starting making regular conversations with me being quite flirty and complimenting my looks. He never takes his eyes off me and notices my every move. I went to a party about a month after which he also attended, i ended up having sex with him and spending the whole night together. Ever since this happened, he just gets really shy when he sees me. When we talk, we cant look eachother in the eye, he goes shy but seems like he doesnt want to leave. He only makes eye contact with me if hes far away and when he does he will stare in my face for absoloutely ages until he gets closer he'll go red and look away. Are these signs? Does he...

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Social skills


Posted Wednesday April 18 2012, 11:05 am

How can my friend develop social skills when shes very shy and wants to make more friends? Any advice welcome :)

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condom ripped / morning after pill? x:


Posted Wednesday April 18 2012, 10:51 am

my last period stopped about 3 days ago and today me and my boyfriend had sex and the condom ripped x:
i'm going to get the morning-after pill tomorrow.
is this going to help? and i think the chances that i'm pregnant are pretty low anyways because i havent eaten anything in two days and my last period just stopped ._. furthermore my boyfriend was a little drunk while we had sex .. x:
but what do you think?

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