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boyfriend gossip circle helppp!!!!!


Posted Tuesday July 15 2008, 5:19 pm

So, i just started a new church and i REALLY like it and seem to fit in. Well, there's this boy whos name is Blaine, and i like him alot, and we have been like side by side since we met pretty much but theres a problem. One girl, named Heather, who is REALLY honest said that he flirts with all the new girls and then once he sees something else that he likes he moves on, then a girl named Sierra said thats not true that hes just a flirty person, then this girl names Camille said that hes fun to flirt with but hes not boy friend material. I find all of them hard to believe because hes SOOOO nice and like hes so sweet and just seems like no intntion on being mean or anything, oh and hes like 4 years older then me, but my parents are okay if we...

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sooo confused..does he like me or not?!


Posted Tuesday July 15 2008, 2:50 pm

17/f...mmk i met this dude at my familys 4th of july party. he was there because his dad was a long time friend of one of my family members. that day, me him and my cousins hung out the entire day. you know, pool, football, baseball..the usual party stuff. at the end of the day when it was time for the fireworks he was sitting far away. next thing i know, he moved to sit next to me. so throughout the night we just talked and watched the fireworks together. a couple days later i see a friend request from him on my myspace AND facebook. so we started talking to each other online and stuff. and now we just stopped talking. i know i probably sound pretty obsessive but its retarded. i just want to know if he likes me...i dont know what to think. sorry if its not a lot of info. thx in advance.

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Meeting the parents


Posted Tuesday July 15 2008, 2:40 pm

To start out, I'm a 16 year old girl. My boyfriend of 1 week is also 16.
He invited me to come to his house tomorrow from 6-10 meaning that I will be eating dinner with him, his parents, and his 18 year old brother. They have not met me yet, and I desperately want to make a good impression. I'm naturally a shy person, and it comes off like I'm just polite but kind of boring. What things should I say/do to make the like me? As many tips as possible please... I'm desperate. Thank you all so much.!

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Me and him


Posted Tuesday July 15 2008, 2:13 pm

15/f
Ok, well, i went to a party yesterday and found out this guy thought i was cute. We don't know eachother but at the beginning of the year i thought he was cute too. Anyways, we exchanged numbers through my friend and we started texting and he told me i was cute and everything but i don't really know him personally and i do want to get to know him, but he hasn't texted me all day and i'm not sure why. Anyways, if we ended up going out, i dont know what i would do because lets just say he has a lot of expierience and i dont! Like, i haven't ever been kissed or anything and my friend that used to go out with him, has made out with him and kissed him and some other things like that. So, if he tried to do that to me, i have no idea what i would do. Please help.

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using me?


Posted Tuesday July 15 2008, 1:52 pm

sorry if this ends up being long..

a couple months ago, i met this guy at my friend's party. we talked a lot while we were there, and texted and talked on the phone and over myspace a lot. then we started hanging out. we'd kiss and make out and whatever, but i didn't want to go farther, because i've only known him for like a month and a half, and we weren't together. then we were hung out on the fourth of july and kissed, and were just cute together. then the next day i looked at his myspace, and he was with someone. i was so hurt, because by the things he said to me, i really thought we would go somewhere. now, he kind of did have a reputation as a "player" but it really didn't seem like he was. now he's st...

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Love.


Posted Tuesday July 15 2008, 12:09 pm

I'm 16/f and I guess I'm just kind of confused about love. I learned in my psychology class that the psychological definition of love is passion+intimacy+commitment (passion meaning sexual attraction and romantic feelings, intimacy meaning being close and feeling close to someone, and commitment meaning wanting to be there forever and making that clear to the other person).

All of that said, I have a boyfriend who I have been with for two years. We've talked about love and about what we feel for each other. Neither one of us are completely in love with each other (because no matter how close we get, I'm still insecure and I still don't feel close and no matter how much he cares about me and wants to stay with me, he finds it...

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Best Friend's boyfriend being too overprotective and clingy


Posted Tuesday July 15 2008, 11:39 am

Well, you see I'm posting this question for my best friend. Just so you know, she's 12 and is going to be 13 in another week or so. I wanna help her out, being best friends and all. So yeah, I'll just get to the point. Today she told me on myspace about how her boyfriend N told her to stop talking to one of her guy friends O. She asked him why and he was like 'cuz i'm your boyfriend, thats why.' i mean, that is being way too overprotective. she told me she was so happy when he left and about how he was being too clingy and calling her every minute of the day. ShesI just really want to help her out...wat should she do abt this? and please dont tell me about how she should deal with this by herself. i kmow!!! I just wanna help!!!

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my girlfriend and our summer break up


Posted Tuesday July 15 2008, 7:01 am

my name is mark im 19 and im a male ... im dating a girl we dated for 2 years on and off we broke up over this past summer and over the summer she did stuff thats bothering me now in our relationship she had sex w. a total of 3 guys multiable times and messed around w/ 3 other guys she told me everything b4 we got back together and it botheres me alot i dont know whwat to do i talked to her about it and shes there for me and all but i dont know what to do i need some advice the only reason im w/ her is because i really love her anyother girl i would tell leave me alone but i need something that will help over that break up i only messed around w/ 2 girls but we didnt have sex or ne thing like that i dont know what to do help me out please email me at gen3eclipsegt@aim.com thank you

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help


Posted Tuesday July 15 2008, 7:00 am

do vaginas smell bad?

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kissing


Posted Tuesday July 15 2008, 6:58 am

how can i become an amazing kisser?


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mixed feelings plzzzzzzzzzz help


Posted Tuesday July 15 2008, 6:54 am

ok i need help i am getting married in june and now i think i like this other guy whom i met through my fiance i m all confused and dont know wat to do plz help

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I don't have a man!


Posted Tuesday July 15 2008, 6:51 am

I'm from Texas and 13.I dated this guy i didn't really like i was just tryin to make someone else jealous....Now we are broke up but he can't get over me and all the guys i like still think i like him and i don't. How do i get them to know i am free and ready to date again without seeming to needy??? Thanks
-Love Sucks

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she loves her boyfriend but has feelings for her ex?


Posted Tuesday July 15 2008, 3:23 am

alright so my friend is dating this guy name taylor that she loves but he is like a dick to her a lot but you know he loves her. they have been dating for about 5 months maybe. well my friend is really good friends with her ex and she has like a lot of feelings for him. she says she loves them equally but her ex treats her so much better than her boyfriend and she knows it. she knows she wants to be with taylor but she likes her ex a lot. taylor found out that his gurlfriend and her ex talk a lot and he got really depressed and cut himself. so im thinkin that if she broke up with him for austin he would prolly kill himself for reall. she loves them both so much but wants to be with taylor cause they have so much goin for them but she loves her ex. what should she do?

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i dont get this?


Posted Tuesday July 15 2008, 3:16 am

okay so i was dating this guy named joe for about 2 months and like i really really liked him more than anything. when we broke up i was so depressed. but his reasons were stupid. he said i was mean to his friends. we didnt hang out enough. i acted different around my friends. and he thought i was bi? its been about a month since we broke up and we dont talk at all and he has another gurlfriend he is in love with that he has only been dating for like 3 weeks which so happens to be one of my good friends and now we are no longer friends anymore and she wont talk to me. he has said the meanest things to me, he has hurt me so much but i still love him and miss him and i would give anything to be with him again and i dont understand why? i just...

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Afraid to take risks?!


Posted Tuesday July 15 2008, 1:59 am

15/f. a couple weeks ago, i had my first kiss. i hated it. me and the guy had been talking, he was dropping me off after our first date, and he hadnt even held my hand, and he totally just kissed me. full on tongue and everything. i was like wow, and i hated it. i don't have feelings for this guy anymore, but i'm worried about the future. i didn't like this kiss, and after contemplating this over and over, it's either, cause it was my first kiss and he wasn't my boyfriend, or that it didn't really have passion. anywho, i'm seriously worried that i won't like kissing guys in the future, because any time it seems as if a guy's about to make a move, i take a huge step back. not literally, but yeah. anywho, i have some seriously hot daydreams ...

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cheating ???


Posted Tuesday July 15 2008, 1:01 am

im 17/f my boyfriend is 18. weve been together for about 6 months but have wanted each other for almost a year. he has a very flirty personality but since he has been with me he's toned down some, i thought. i went on his myspace tonight [i know i know, shame on me, i shouldnt have done that, but i did, it was the first time] and i found messages he's been sending this girl sayin hey sexy n he wishes he woulda had a chance to go out with her [apparently she moved] and that he woulda made her the happiest girl in the world and i love you and all this shit. what the hell am i supposed to do now? we've had some probs lately but i thought we were trying to work through them, he talks like im the only one he wants and im the best thing he's ever...

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bigger?


Posted Tuesday July 15 2008, 12:25 am

my boyfriend pointed out that one of my nipple is bigger then the other one...is that okay?

thanks for letting me know!

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hello.


Posted Monday July 14 2008, 11:59 pm

15/ f
i've been going out with my boyfriend for 2 years.
i care about him alot, the thing is if we break up for good he's going to move back to where he use to live, which is 8 hours away by plane.. I would lose a best friend, and a boyfriend. A reason why we would break up is because of me.. i could see myself marrying him, but not right now. I wanna "play the field" alittle bit.. be with other guys but i cant or he'll move. Any advice on any of this?

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i spoke to my ex via email but didnt mean anything


Posted Monday July 14 2008, 8:59 pm

i been with my gf for 10 months and 8 months ago i spoke to my ex through email but it didnt mean anything..she asked me how i was doing so i answered back saying im doing great and im happy with my current gf..and then i asked how she was and she said the same..me and my ex were just dating for 4 months it wasnt official or anything so when we she broke it off cuz she wasnt happy we spoke rarely afterwards,she just wanted to be friends..so i tried getting back together with her after we broke up i met her for lunch a couple times tried to get back with her i tried kissing her it didnt work i was just a real jerk..so my final email with her was me apologising to her how i was a jerk..well my current gf found out and now she dont trust me be...

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i think he likes me but then again he has a girlfriend


Posted Monday July 14 2008, 8:05 pm

okay the guy i like has a gf but i think he likes me
you see i told him that i really liked him and he said well i know i have a girlfriend but i think i should let you know how i feel about you and he said that he thinks im absolutely gorgeous but he wishes we could have got to know each other better and talk more.......and we kept talking until it was almost 2 in the moring
and we havent stopped...
but im confused if he likes me than why would he still be with his girl?
or does he even like me at all?
help!!!

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