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sooo confused..does he like me or not?!
17/f...mmk i met this dude at my familys 4th of july party. he was there because his dad was a long time friend of one of my family members. that day, me him and my cousins hung out the entire day. you know, pool, football, baseball..the usual party stuff. at the end of the day when it was time for the fireworks he was sitting far away. next thing i know, he moved to sit next to me. so throughout the night we just talked and watched the fireworks together. a couple days later i see a friend request from him on my myspace AND facebook. so we started talking to each other online and stuff. and now we just stopped talking. i know i probably sound pretty obsessive but its retarded. i just want to know if he likes me...i dont know what to think. sorry if its not a lot of info. thx in advance.
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I'm going to give you a list of what guys tend to do when they like girls:
1. They don't call you "sexy". They call you "beautiful", "gorgeous", "amazing", etc.
2. They make an effort to hug you. They might high-5 instead, but it really depends on the guy in question.
3. They DO find any reason to touch you in some way. Mostly it ISN'T in a sexual way. Its more of just an excuse to remember what you feel like, I guess. Its hard to explain...
4. He is always smiling around you. If you're feeling bad and he's around- he'll be smiling because he knows that he's there to help you- and that's like brownie points for a guy if they can help a girl out. That, like the above, is hard to explain.
5. He'll tell you things about himself that he normally wouldn't tell everyone. He opens up to you. Guys don't get a chance to do that when pressured to "be manly".
6. If you have a feeling that a guy likes you- you're probably right. Guys aren't the best at hiding it- and girls are even better at figuring these type of things out.
If you like this guy- and he does all or most of those things- my best bet is that he does like you. That means one and only one thing: Ask him to make sure, and then try the relationship out. Who knows- it could be great!
Other than those reason, I think he definitely might. I know that when I spend the time to talk to someone new I usually end up at least having a minor crush on them, and I don't think I'm the only guy like that.
--Jack
(16/m)
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Firstly, it's understandable that you notice the sudden stop of communication, and you do not sound obsessive! It is natural... :)
I don't think he likes you, because if he did, he would be talking to you almost everyday, every chance he could get, but he isn't and hasn't. So, I don't think so. Sorry.
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well. it seems like he kind of likes you, but he probably isn't sure what your feelings are towards him. so try talking to him and flirting and if he's kinda backing away or not talking so much, he probably just wants to stay friends.
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