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Me and him
15/f
Ok, well, i went to a party yesterday and found out this guy thought i was cute. We don't know eachother but at the beginning of the year i thought he was cute too. Anyways, we exchanged numbers through my friend and we started texting and he told me i was cute and everything but i don't really know him personally and i do want to get to know him, but he hasn't texted me all day and i'm not sure why. Anyways, if we ended up going out, i dont know what i would do because lets just say he has a lot of expierience and i dont! Like, i haven't ever been kissed or anything and my friend that used to go out with him, has made out with him and kissed him and some other things like that. So, if he tried to do that to me, i have no idea what i would do. Please help.
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Well, firstly, if he likes you for you and wants you for you, then he'll accept you with you inexperiences as well, if he doesn't then, he isn't worth it. That just cleans up the junk, doesn't it?! But you should tell him your inexperiences, so he undertsands and knows what he's getting into, and so if he says something silly about you being inexperienced, then you can use the fact that you warned him before. :)
You just noticed some silence, because he hasn't messaged you all day doesn't really mean any of his feelings have changed. Just wait until tomorrow, and if he still doesn't message, then I suggest you send him a message asking him what's going on and if he's ok. Something friendly.
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try texting him, but don't annoy him. be like, hey what's up? or something along those lines.
and about the going out with him situation, before you two would go out, tell him you're not as experienced as him and you aren't ready for that and if he cares about you he would understand and take it slow and not rush you. if he would try to rush you, you need to back away because that could lead to far worse things.
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If you haven't had any experience, and he has, who cares? It's not like he keeps a list of all the girls he's kissed and rates them [or at least, I sure hope not!].
Just be yourself, and be honest with him. Let him know you haven't done quite as much as him, and you want to take things slow. I'm sure if he really does like you, he'll understand =]
-Laura. (16-f)
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