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boyfriend gossip circle helppp!!!!!
So, i just started a new church and i REALLY like it and seem to fit in. Well, there's this boy whos name is Blaine, and i like him alot, and we have been like side by side since we met pretty much but theres a problem. One girl, named Heather, who is REALLY honest said that he flirts with all the new girls and then once he sees something else that he likes he moves on, then a girl named Sierra said thats not true that hes just a flirty person, then this girl names Camille said that hes fun to flirt with but hes not boy friend material. I find all of them hard to believe because hes SOOOO nice and like hes so sweet and just seems like no intntion on being mean or anything, oh and hes like 4 years older then me, but my parents are okay if we go out, becuase he is friends with them and with my brother, i NEEEEEED HELP.Oh and im a girl
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Sounds like there's definitely some girl-on-girl crime going on here. What most people don't understand about female gossip, is that it's the dirtiest and most terrorizing kind there is. Girls will say whatever they need to to keep things for themselves. They fight hard, and compete until they feel satisfied.
They best thing to do? Don't be like them. Don't fight hard and look like just a competitor. Be the girl who comes off as a challenge. You don't want to be another trophy placed on his shelf if the rumors are valid. Trust me.. if he's a flirt, he'll notice you RIGHT away with this technique. Don't ignore him-- just don't be the one to walk up to him or start conversation. Also, don't disregard what other people are saying completely.. just because there's a few girls who are in total agreement with his flirtatious ways.
Basically, if you used this advice, you'd be finding out the truth in a different way, ands you'd be getting to know him on your terms. Decide for yourself, and good luck!
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Actually girls do that when they get jealous. He is the type I see myself with and probably majority of women. You should base your decisions on what you think of him as a person. IT wouldn't be fair on his part to be judged by you because of what some girls said. He might be the one person for you and you need to do what it takes to get him.
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