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hello.
15/ f
i've been going out with my boyfriend for 2 years.
i care about him alot, the thing is if we break up for good he's going to move back to where he use to live, which is 8 hours away by plane.. I would lose a best friend, and a boyfriend. A reason why we would break up is because of me.. i could see myself marrying him, but not right now. I wanna "play the field" alittle bit.. be with other guys but i cant or he'll move. Any advice on any of this?
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Are you surprised that you can't marry the guy and "play the field" at the same time? Honestly, you are in a real relationship where your only problem is the fact that you feel it's too comfortable. So comfortable in fact, that you want to dump the guy just to shake things up. I envy you, and also have no real advice for you. The choice is yours: a meaningful relationship or some fun teen dating. It's a personal choice, so it's up to you.
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so you have 2 options pretty much : stay with him, be in love, as happy as you are now, or you can break up, see what's out there and maybe you'll find someone you love other than him.
the thing is, you are amazing lucky that you found someone you have fallen for this early in life. the fact that you two have been together for two years proves that this isn't your ordinary high school crush that lasts for a couple of months and is over. just remember that.
i'm sure you wanna play the field, but guess what? i highly doubt that you'll find someone who will stay with you for as long as this guy has because most guys today will only look for sex and other favors from girls. this guy genuinely seems to care for you so you need to ask yourself if you would be okay with letting him go in the end, and if you arent in any way, then tell him to stay. if you think you can be without him, then let him go.
i really wish you luck
im me if you wanna talk
xxes25
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