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i think he likes me but then again he has a girlfriend


Question Posted Monday July 14 2008, 8:05 pm

okay the guy i like has a gf but i think he likes me
you see i told him that i really liked him and he said well i know i have a girlfriend but i think i should let you know how i feel about you and he said that he thinks im absolutely gorgeous but he wishes we could have got to know each other better and talk more.......and we kept talking until it was almost 2 in the moring
and we havent stopped...
but im confused if he likes me than why would he still be with his girl?
or does he even like me at all?
help!!!


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scootermclisle answered Monday July 14 2008, 10:46 pm:
He "likes" you, but that's nothing special. Honestly, the only place where people are passionately falling over one person and giggling over who they "like" is elementary school. He isn't dazzled by you, but stuck with his current girlfriend like you are hoping. He thinks you are gorgeous and wants to know you. That's all, and last I checked, wishing to know someone did not beat out an actual relationship.

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Cux answered Monday July 14 2008, 8:55 pm:
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I'm going to give you a list of what guys tend to do when they like girls:

1. They don't call you "sexy". They call you "beautiful", "gorgeous", "amazing", etc.

2. They make an effort to hug you. They might high-5 instead, but it really depends on the guy in question.

3. They DO find any reason to touch you in some way. Mostly it ISN'T in a sexual way. Its more of just an excuse to remember what you feel like, I guess. Its hard to explain...

4. He is always smiling around you. If you're feeling bad and he's around- he'll be smiling because he knows that he's there to help you- and that's like brownie points for a guy if they can help a girl out. That, like the above, is hard to explain.

5. He'll tell you things about himself that he normally wouldn't tell everyone. He opens up to you. Guys don't get a chance to do that when pressured to "be manly".

6. If you have a feeling that a guy likes you- you're probably right. Guys aren't the best at hiding it- and girls are even better at figuring these type of things out.



It's pretty common for a guy to like a girl outside of his relationship. As wrong as that may be, it's true. He seems to have done a few of the things above, so I would say he likes you.

Just lay low for awhile, especially since he has a girlfriend. You wouldn't want to steal him away and have a horrible reputation, would you? ;]

--Jack
(16/m)

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