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really cute, shy guy
Posted Thursday September 18 2008, 3:09 pm
so there is this really cute guy in my school and i really quite like him. he's a year above me though and we never really talked before. so we go home on the same bus and like yesterday he kept glancing at the clothe I'm wearing and smiled at the stickers on my bag :D LOL and today on the bus he looked a bit down at first and usually I'M the one being down because i'm a bit emoish sometimes. so anyways i just couldnt stop smiling because he was just sitting there so cute and then he started to smile as well but he never looked directly at me. he was kind of "talking" to a few girls so i thought he was smiling because of them but then when they talked to him he didnt even notice so he wasnt listening at all :P but im still not sur...
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shy but crushing
Posted Wednesday September 17 2008, 9:06 pm
so I just started highschool and theres this guy that I like. I have bio and history with him but I'm too shy to talk to him. He doesn't act like he likes me at all so I don't know what to do, but I mean we've never talked so itd be kind of hard. i'm also really shy so it's even HARDER...so if any of u have any advice on what to do please help.
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in love with best friend who lives out of town
Posted Wednesday September 17 2008, 8:42 pm
17/f one of my very best friends is a guy, we went out at one point but we broke up because he lives far, far away. however i still am majorly in love with him and he knows it. i've tried to get over my feelings for him but i just can't. does this mean i am truly in love?
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controlling hormones
Posted Wednesday September 17 2008, 7:51 pm
ok so i'm 15f and already relatively turned on most of the time but i obviously control myself.
but recently i've been playing a game with one of my guyfriends where we ask really awkward personal sexual questions to each other and that's really got me heated. not for him, but for the subject, for the conversation itself.
i was talking to one of my other guyfriends today and i just got so turned on that i accidentally kept glancing at his groin area in school today and i guess he noticed because he half jokingly like, "can you keep your eyes up there at the teacher?" and i felt really embarrassed.
what do i do to just tone down my mind a little? i'm really hyper and excited all the ti...
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should I tell him..?
Posted Wednesday September 17 2008, 7:08 pm
Ok so I've known this one guy for a little over 2 years. I went out with him twice back then, but I broke up with him because I did'nt know him as much as i wanted to. It was pretty lame.
So now, 2 years later, I really want to say.. that I am completely in love with him. He has no idea either. I've liked him for so long and it's killing me inside. He's the only one i want to be with for the rest of my life.
I was hanging out with him once out of school, and it was like the best day of my life.
He held my hands so i did'nt fall when attempting to skateboard, we laid down together everywhere, and even tickled eachother(haha).
I'm with him almost every second at school.
Everyone ...
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hormones
Posted Wednesday September 17 2008, 7:07 pm
how do hormones influence when people do stupid things (e.g., have unprotected sex)? i know it's an "in the moment" sort of thing. but. like how strongly do hormones affect a teenager?
i'm 15f.
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so theres this boy..
Posted Wednesday September 17 2008, 5:56 pm
15/f
Theres this guy on my bus and he liked me the year before last ALOT.
Well today on the bus I was shocked when he compared our hand sizes and marveled over how small mine were, and then he held my hand like fingers laced. He held my hand for a minute, then let go, and kept doing that at random times. But he finally held on for the rest of the busride before we had to get off
and he gave me his aim and his cell phone number even though it got taken away.
I dunno if he likes me or not because hes pretty flirtatious but I soo hope he does but what do you think?
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I like my best friend
Posted Tuesday September 16 2008, 7:43 pm
I been friends with this girl for a little over a year now, and we've become pretty close to best friends since we met.
We tell each other pretty much everything.
I really started liking her after a while, but was always too scared to ask her out or anything.
Then one day, we were asking each other who we both liked, and I told her, and she told me she liked me too.
After that, we started dating, but she broke up with me after just 6 days, saying her mom wouldnt let her date because her grades werent high enough.
After that, we both seriously never talked about it again, at all...
That was last March.
She has now recently become like best friends with my other best friend, who...
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new boyfriend
Posted Tuesday September 16 2008, 7:17 pm
There are some things about my boyfriend of about a month now that i would really like to change... i know thats kind of bad but its not major things, just a few.. like i would really like it if he shaved more often because i really like clean shaven men rather than the stumble.. and he has a bit of a problem with acne and i think a good facewash would help like neutrogena or something... is there a polite way to bring this up? thanks for any advice in advance :)
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the boy i like.....same old story!
Posted Tuesday September 16 2008, 6:19 pm
Every single girl asks a dumb question like this "I can't tell if this guy likes me and i dont know how to find out!".... But I am seriously going through drama like this now! I really like this guy and I really want him to ask me to the homecoming dance! I have a huge weakness for funny guys, and he is hilarious!! The only bad thing is, we hardly EVER talk! He is in two of my classes, but we do not sit by eachother. So its kinda hard for me to start up a conversation. He does not have a facebook or AIM screenname, so its very hard for me to start up a conversation with him. We look at eachother ALL the time! Sometimes I will look for him in the corner of my eye and I see him looking at me. And sometimes I will look at h...
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please help...
Posted Tuesday September 16 2008, 6:18 pm
ive liked a guy for over 3 years who just recently told me he doesnt like me...how do i get over him?? i see and talk with him everyday...i dont want to throw away a friendship but i cant really like and other guy with him around
my best friend cheated on her boyfriend 5 time...he broke up with her...she started cutting and threatened to kill herself...she hates herself for what she is...she is in therapy now...
one of the guys she cheated with happened to be my really good guy friend of 3 years who liked me but i always pushed him away
just now i started flirting and all this stuff with him more
but he has a girfriend...so i didnt want him to break up with his gf for me when i still liked this other guy alot
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should i talk to him about it?
Posted Tuesday September 16 2008, 5:13 pm
15/f
okay so me and my boyfriend have been going out for three and a half weeks. and i have a lot of guy friends way more than girl friends. i'm always hugging my guy friends just as a nice gesture you know? Then with my bf i never see him hugging other girls. so sometimes i feel awkward when i hug my friends and he's there.
he's a sophmore on the JV football team and like today i met this new guy "d" and he's a junior on the Varsity football team. we're just friends. then when i was waiting for my boyfriend "T". d came up right before t could hug me d did because he was closer. And when i saw my boyfriend's face he was starring like what the heck? i don't think it was in a "you just st...
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how do i dump my boyfriend
Posted Tuesday September 16 2008, 5:00 pm
Ok. theres this guy i'm crazy over, i like him so much but he does stuff i'm not into like smoking and drugs. i know i should dump him becase hes a jerk to other people and stuff..but i just cant bring myself to do it, if i do it i'll be miserable for a long long time and i wont be able to focus on anything else exept thinking about him...any advice?
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i have a crush on the new guyy
Posted Tuesday September 16 2008, 2:51 pm
ok so there is this new guy who came in our class and he's really cute and nice. at first i thought he didnt like me but then we went on a classtrip thingy for a week and we got to know eachother and are sort of friends.
I'm a bit of a 'weirdo' in my class. i get along with everyone but i dont really have any close friends and hang out on my own more. so he talks to me when he get's the chance, like he talked to me a lot at a party last week and also asked me to sit next to him today. but the problem is that he's flirty with every girl. like he's always joking around with them and pokes them, always makes body contact etc.
and with me he's always quite serious unless I'M the one being joky, then he starts to be funny with me a...
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problems already???
Posted Tuesday September 16 2008, 2:36 pm
Alright. I just got together with this guy form my work.
He is really a great guy, were just sooooo different! and i cant tell my parents cause i just know they would'nt accept him..just because.
but i have a problem beacuse he cares about me SOOOOOOO much...already and i just dont feel the same way i mean im trying to i really am, the feelings just are'nt there. but i do like him dont get me wrong. THeres just some little things that really bug me about him like the way he dresses...i know that sounds superficial. And something else...he's 19 and a virgin which is really cool but he wants to have sex with me so bad!!!!!! but i really dont want to rush into something like that, especially if im not sure how i feel about him ye...
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loner
Posted Tuesday September 16 2008, 9:33 am
at school, i dont have any friends. i only have, like, 4-5 real friends, and they all go to a different school than me.
this girl talks to me at my school, but i know she just feels sorry for me cuz i always go over there looking miserable and she just randomly walks up. honestly? she annoys me.
but thats not the problem. ok so ive been having a really hard time getting over my ex. usually at school i just keep to myself and go read a book or cry in the bathroom or something. but there is this really pretty boy over there that i want to be friends with. i dont wanna date anybody right now, so just being friends is fine by me.
only problem is hes not in any of my classes. and i cant get transfered...
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cheating husband
Posted Tuesday September 16 2008, 8:56 am
No matter what I do, I can't get my husband to send me nice sms's or emails. But recently I went trough his mail, and found pics to another man? What am I doing wrong here.
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confused
Posted Tuesday September 16 2008, 6:44 am
so i broke up from my one year realtionship with this guy that i really loved, we had sex and all. we broke up because he had to leave to another country and i miss him lots, its been a month sonce the breakup, and im not so depressed and sad anymore, im kinda ok again. but i still miss him alot. the thing is there is another guy likes me now, i don't know if im ready or what... and i dfont want to hurt him either! help please... thanks!!
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Boyfriend Is Scared
Posted Tuesday September 16 2008, 6:27 am
My boyfriend loves me and I love him and we both care about each other a lot and we would both do anything for one another. But last night he had almost broken up with me because he is scared.
He's afraid to get close to people especially if it's a girlfriend... with all his previous relationships he goes out with the girl and then leaves them when he gets scared.
I would of just let him break up with me if i didn't think we didn't have something special. I can really see him and I together in the future and he feels the same.
I've told him to hold on and we'll make it and that this is different and I've told him he can make it over his fear.
But he's still scared and I've explained to him that I don'...
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am i being selfish
Posted Tuesday September 16 2008, 1:23 am
im gonna keep this short and simple.
my boyfriend and i live 200 miles away from each other
we see each other once every 1-2 months
meaning we dont really have sex alot, yaknow?
well okay he wants to talk dirty on the phone
i dont
it makes me really uncomfortable/ awkward
he said he doesnt care, it makes him bored
& im a boring, selfish gf because i wont send pics/talk dirty.
what the fucck is that?
i told him to go find someone who would do that because he obviously doesnt care that i dont feel right doing it
and he was like yeah will do
SO SERIOUSLY wtf, now i feel bad for saying that
but that's wrong of him right? or am i being selfish..
17/f
hes 19
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