Question Posted Tuesday September 16 2008, 8:56 am
No matter what I do, I can't get my husband to send me nice sms's or emails. But recently I went trough his mail, and found pics to another man? What am I doing wrong here.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Jami answered Thursday September 18 2008, 12:16 am: A lot of guys just aren't into the whole love sms thing. Eventhough some will do it, many don't have a clue that you would even like that. You have to talk to your husband and let him know how you feel and that you want things between the two of you to be more romantic and he should get into it if he cares. As far as the picture to another man goes, I would express my concern and ask him what that was even about. It sounds pretty shady so talk it out and see if you two can make your marriage work. If he has been cheating you are going to have to decide how much you are willing to deal with and if you can get back on track. Him sending pictures to another man is not even close to being something that makes sense. You pledged your lives bonded for the rest of your days, so you won't want to just leave him because of what you think is going on which is why you have to get to the truth. Bottom line, if you still want your husband and he is the only one for you, don't give him up to anyone else as long as you feel you have a shot at saving your marriage. [ Jami's advice column | Ask Jami A Question ]
LagunaBabe answered Wednesday September 17 2008, 6:23 am: I think you need to have a talk with him in order to figure out what's really going on. Please, do not take this as your fault - it is not. You are not doing anything wrong, nor is it your fault what he's doing. [ LagunaBabe's advice column | Ask LagunaBabe A Question ]
LiTTLEGiRLBLUE answered Wednesday September 17 2008, 2:26 am: You're not doing anything wrong. But I think you should really find out what's going on. You should talk to him and tell him how you feel about him not sending you nice emails or anything. Most guys just aren't into that. And if he is cheating, you should leave him. But do what I do. Get the full side of the story before you jump to conclusions.
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