Question Posted Tuesday September 16 2008, 6:44 am
so i broke up from my one year realtionship with this guy that i really loved, we had sex and all. we broke up because he had to leave to another country and i miss him lots, its been a month sonce the breakup, and im not so depressed and sad anymore, im kinda ok again. but i still miss him alot. the thing is there is another guy likes me now, i don't know if im ready or what... and i dfont want to hurt him either! help please... thanks!!
If this guy likes you, I'm sure he will wait for you if he really has true feelings for you. Exsplain to him that you aren't ready to date anyone at this time and you would like to remain friends. [ BahaiMa22's advice column | Ask BahaiMa22 A Question ]
LagunaBabe answered Wednesday September 17 2008, 6:24 am: I don't quite think you're ready to start dating again. I think you need to take some more time to think things through and get over the guy you were with, before going out with another one. That way, you'll be able to completely involve yourself in a new relationship without bringing up this one. [ LagunaBabe's advice column | Ask LagunaBabe A Question ]
LiTTLEGiRLBLUE answered Wednesday September 17 2008, 2:24 am: You should tell the other guy about your previous relationship. Tell him that you were in a serious relationship and that you miss the guy. If you're not ready, ask him to give you some time. Maybe you can try going out but just have him know that you're still going to miss the other girl. Perhaps he'd get the other guy out of your head while you're together. If you are, all I can say is to go for it.
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