Question Posted Wednesday September 17 2008, 7:08 pm
Ok so I've known this one guy for a little over 2 years. I went out with him twice back then, but I broke up with him because I did'nt know him as much as i wanted to. It was pretty lame.
So now, 2 years later, I really want to say.. that I am completely in love with him. He has no idea either. I've liked him for so long and it's killing me inside. He's the only one i want to be with for the rest of my life.
I was hanging out with him once out of school, and it was like the best day of my life.
He held my hands so i did'nt fall when attempting to skateboard, we laid down together everywhere, and even tickled eachother(haha).
I'm with him almost every second at school.
Everyone thinks we're going out.
But we're not, and I'm so confused on what to do.
I thought about telling him that I like him so, but I'm too scared of what he will think. He's like my best friend, and i don't want to ruin that.
My question is, Should I tell him how I feel? I'm just scared he won't feel the same way.
Thanx in advace. And sorry if it's too long at all. =S
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? ediemarie answered Thursday September 18 2008, 9:46 am: Hi,
I think that since you are nervous, the next time the two of you are together and having a good time, you should just casually start asking questions. For example; so how do you think this relationship is going? Do you ever think about how it would be if we stayed together? Do you ever think about it? If he says something like, I think it's going well. The best thing we could have done is broke up or stayed friends, then you will know how he feels without actually putting yourself out there. I hope it answers your questions and he gives you the answers you want.
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Dontyoufakeit13 answered Thursday September 18 2008, 5:20 am: Lol, well obviously he feels the same way towards you since you said that you guys lay down together and tickle eachtoher and hold hands, so like i think the both of you are just to shy to say anything and maybe he feels the same way as you and hes scared that it may ruin ur friendship,
so maybe you should give it a while and get closer and closer to him and im sure he will tell you.
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