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why can't i get over him?
Posted Monday October 20 2008, 8:59 pm
15/f
ok well me and my ex have been broken up for about two weeks and we only went out for about 6 weeks. and i get so jealous when i see him with other girls. i want to get over him but i don't know how. my aunt told me that part of the reason i can't get over him is because i'm not satisfied with the reason he broke up with me. and that reason was because his "concussion messed up his feelings for me". no, i'm not satisfied with that reason but but i don't think that's what's consuming me.
i thought i was falling for him too :/ but we only went out for a short amount of time. in a way i kinda think i need to just hear him say that we don't have another chance together to knock some sense into me bu...
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cheating or not?
Posted Monday October 20 2008, 5:58 pm
okay so heres the situation.
my ex boyfriend and i went out for 6 months,
he broke up with me for my cousin, (and he thought i was cheating when in reality he was cheating)
well anyways my cousin and him went out for a year and 2 months.. they broke up today *she broke up with him for a new guy*
well i went to his house today not to see him,im best friends with his sister, well he was upset and he told me to come hang out with him while his sister was cooking.. now i have a boyfriend weve been dating 8 months. so i hung out with my ex and he told me to sit on his bed and he was playing a video game haha and he asked me to try to play well when i took the controls he put his arm around my waist and put h...
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getting over a 2 year relationship
Posted Monday October 20 2008, 5:56 pm
I'm 16 years old. I know, thats young.
But I had a boyfriend my freshmen year, he was also my best friend before we decided to be together.
We went out for almost 2 years. But heres the thing.. I moved about a year ago to another state. So me and him have been doing long distance for the rest of the year.
My parents hated him because they found out about me and him getting intimate. So we only visited each other once. and we broke up 2 months ago.
I feel like I lost my love and my best friend all in once. Were trying to be best friends still, so we still keep in touch. but I still have feelings for him. He says he doesn't love me anymore, he said he loves me as his best friend. Sometimes hes really rude...
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escape the "friends with benefits" stage
Posted Monday October 20 2008, 12:57 pm
Alright so I'm pretty sure I've gotten myself into a "friends with benefits" situation and I am in need of some wise thought out advice.
I met this guy a few weeks ago and we really hit it off. He just recently came out of a 3 year relashionship so we aren't going to be rushing int anything. We've seen eachother a fair amount, each time ending in a make-out session. One time he even spent the night... He keeps telling me he doesn't wan't to rush into anything but less than 10 seconds after that he kisses me. I really like him so I just go along with it. I believe I have gotten myself into a friends with benefits situation and I want it to end. Not necesarily the whole relationship but the fact that he is somew...
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Firefighter vs. Artist
Posted Monday October 20 2008, 11:21 am
20/f
I have been dating this guy who is an artist for almost a year and a half now.
Pros: *He is a really nice guy
*He claims he wants to marry me.
*His sister is awesome
*He makes me laugh and i can do stupid stuff with him
Cons: *We do the same things over and over
*He is an artist but he also has to have a regular job, so he is always broke
*I cannot stand his mother
Ok, now everyone is going to think I am a bad person, but I just feel like the Artist is my friend and not my boyfriend. So I have been looking. I have met this guy who is a firefighter online, and he seems really nice. I haven't met him i...
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love at first sight...?
Posted Monday October 20 2008, 11:05 am
Ok, not really, but anyways...im 18 and the other day i was at work and one of my friends came in with some of his friends.
i'd never seen them before, but from the second i started talking to them, i had the BIGGEST connection with one of them.
ok so im in to the bad boys, with tattoos, big trucks...ect..
but this guy i met is way different, he's so adorable, in a christian band, sweet as hell...!
anyways, when i got off work, we all hung out for like 3 hours...and me and him flirted so much, and we got each others numbers...
then i find out he has a gf, of like a month, who happens to be in my grade, and way ugly :( anyways he called me last night, and we talk on myspace lol and he really wants to hang o...
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:(
Posted Monday October 20 2008, 10:36 am
im 17 and i havnt had a proper bf before. ive had one lousy kiss. no lad has ever called me pretty/cute/beautiful etc. i leave for university next year. i have no prospects for a bf before then but i really really dont want to turn up at uni an inexperienced virgin. cos i just know everyone else will have done everything already. all of my friends have lost their virginity and have boyfriends. i really hate it but im not sure if im confident enough to do anything about it. :(
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wats wrong with guys... wats wrong with me???
Posted Monday October 20 2008, 3:50 am
17/f
i want a boyfriend... even wen it come close and i think a guy like me it always turns out that they dont. its not far like=[
like just recently i had was hangin out with friends and stuff and one of my guy friends kept flirting with me and he even gave me a hikkie [long story] but he said he doesnt like me.
wat kind of wrong signals is that? i dnt get it.. maybe im just not girlfriend material. this always happens.
help??? i have no idea wats wrong with me.
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Pointless Crush?
Posted Monday October 20 2008, 1:06 am
im 16 and i just met this guy at the beginning of school and hes so sweet and nice but hes also such a flirt. For a few weeks we talked every day on the phone and it seemed like he liked me too. But now im not sure because he always talks about other girls. Should i just give up and move on? He still flirts with me alot and occassionally calls, but he could be doing that with other girls tooo. im also way to shy to just come out and tell him i like him. help me!
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My 4 year anniversary is coming up and I need help writing a card..
Posted Sunday October 19 2008, 10:41 pm
My boyfriend is an intense wrestler, so I would like to incorperate some sort of wrestling joke in there. It can be sexual, but I'd prefer it to be emotional. A few wrestling terms you guys can use: "head gear, singlet, mat." Seriously, anything related to wrestling. (High school wrestling, not like WWE wrestling.)
Also, I am open to any other suggestions to put in the card. I feel like a lot of the things I am saying is very cliché. Thanks!
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how to get a guy I like... alot
Posted Sunday October 19 2008, 9:33 pm
Me and this guy I have a huge crush on are in our schools band together. We know eathothers names and say hi to eachother and we chat somtimes at band practice and competitions. The problem is, I dont know how do get any closer to him! Yesterday, I went out of my way to sit by him in the bleachers at our band competition, and I talked to him alot durring it, but never really got into any real conversation, just like little comments. I am not shy at all, but I really just cant think of anything to do to get his attention and get him thinking about me. He probably just thought it was a fluke that I sat next to him for all that time yesterday, if he even thought about it at all. I want to invite him to do somthing with my freinds, because he i...
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pop kiss.
Posted Sunday October 19 2008, 6:48 pm
How do you pop kiss? Please show steps. Thanks!
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Booty call?
Posted Sunday October 19 2008, 5:20 pm
Well, this guy and i have been messing around for about 3 years now. And hes 5 years older than me, but its become more intense. Like, now he wants me to sleep over and all that. But he has a girlfriend of two years, but he says he doesnt care about her. He basically just needs her for now because of work. Well, we are on the level of more than good friends and less than a couple, its confusing. I really have strong feelings about him, and i go over his house everynight and its not always about sex. I dont know if he is using me, and i really doubt it just because of how he acts towards me. I know he cares, but its like we cant be together right now because of our age difference and because i am 16. Am i a booty call? or is this all that ca...
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best friend boy
Posted Sunday October 19 2008, 4:18 pm
might be long but theres a guy and we've been great friends for 6 years and this year we gotten so much closer we hang out atleast once a week and he says things like hes wants to be by me and wnts to sit with me and like we talk about college (im 15)and he says that he wants me to be his dorm buddie and he offers to buy things for me, plays with my hair , hold the door and says nice things about me. we both manipulate each other by doing things like he gets me to go somewhere if i really don't want to and i get him to go places too and we sing <3songs to eachother and he put his arm around me once idk if he likes me more than a friend or whats the deal?
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conversation with a hottie :D
Posted Sunday October 19 2008, 3:26 pm
ok so i like this guy and i think he likes me back. we havent talked to eachother yet though haha :) only smiles.
so i dont know how to talk to him. im very very shy and dont often talk to attractive guys, because of it. :S
we go home by the same bublic bus so i thought that's a good time?! sometimes hes with his friends though. so how should i start a convo ???? *_*
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What to do now?
Posted Sunday October 19 2008, 1:38 pm
So there's this guy that works literally in front of my house. I live like 2 houses away from the corner of my block, and he works right in the corner in front of it, I can see the warehouse clearly from my house. He is gorgeous. The first time I saw him, I was on my way home from the library, and I smiled at him, so he smiled back. I was feeling insecure that day because I thought I looked ugly, and he was already driving away. Well, there was a party at my house yesterday when, out of the corner of my eye, I see this ford avalanche coming down my street. I looked to the warehouse and saw it wasn't there, and I see it's him, driving past my house. I smiled at him, and he smiled his perfect smile [and i almost drowned in his blue eyes HAHA]...
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homecoming
Posted Sunday October 19 2008, 1:14 pm
14/f ok i have a question about homecoming...well i was going with a guy as a friend but he brought me a corsage and he bought my ticket for me and i was wondering if this means anything but i dont like him i like another guy so im really confused....
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does my gf fallen out of love with me?
Posted Sunday October 19 2008, 11:48 am
MY gf and i are together for almost 2 years, and now everyhings changed. i love her so much and i dont wan to lose her. i sometimes think that if she was not meant for me then i'll just end up my life because she's my life. it seems that our relationship is like a bomb waiting for its time to blow...everyday the clock ticks and the end is near for us. she always told me she love me but i could not feel it like before...was i too demanding for her to show it or she doesnt love me anymore? i am really confused and dnt know what to do..i wanted ending killing up myself so that i will not suffer the pain when the time comes..
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how do i tell her?
Posted Sunday October 19 2008, 11:47 am
how do I tell a girl I like her even though she has a boyfriend?
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wtf weirdest feeling ever >;o
Posted Sunday October 19 2008, 4:14 am
Okay,
So latley i've been getting this feeling like i miss some one.
And i think its weird,becasue i really can't think of anyone i could miss.
What does this mean?
A friend told me its not that i miss someone but that i "need" some one.
Do you think this is true?
Help ...please<3
thank you thank you.
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