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why can't i get over him?
15/f
ok well me and my ex have been broken up for about two weeks and we only went out for about 6 weeks. and i get so jealous when i see him with other girls. i want to get over him but i don't know how. my aunt told me that part of the reason i can't get over him is because i'm not satisfied with the reason he broke up with me. and that reason was because his "concussion messed up his feelings for me". no, i'm not satisfied with that reason but but i don't think that's what's consuming me.
i thought i was falling for him too :/ but we only went out for a short amount of time. in a way i kinda think i need to just hear him say that we don't have another chance together to knock some sense into me but i know he's too nice to say that to my face.
i do miss him but i know he probably doesn't care about me anymore. it's so hard to talk to him in person. so i messaged him on myspace askingif he could do me a favor and call me. i need to get some things out. he hasn't read the msg yet and now i don't even know if that was a good idea.
i'd love to hear other peoples opinion on this and if the message was a good idea. thank you :]
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hey,
well i can see why his reason to break up didnt satisfy you. i mean because of his concussion?
can you say lying?
i think you should discuss it with him and if he still feels something for you maybe ya'll can work it out.
but...
if he doesn't and he does tell you that well... he doesn't want to get back together then you should just move on. i mean your still pretty young i dont think you need to stick around for any boy.
and about the message thing. it was a good idea. well in my opinion. but the message can help you figure out some things too. if he doesn't ever call you or he does read the message and never replies it might mean he doesn't want to get back together. =/
well i hope i helped and i wish you the best of luck with everything
litt0lkv
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This probably isnt what you want to hear, and i am sorry for that..
Yes, that is a lame excuse to break it off with somebody...and yes i dont blame you for being angry or hurt with the reason he gave you. I think your aunt hit the nail on the head. Although, there is always going to be that one guy that is EXTREMELY hard to get over...and you may never be able to.
Honestly, the message was a good idea. I am like you in a way, i have to get my feelings out and get closure before i can move on, and that is exactly what you are doing. Its the smart thing, although what he has to say may hurt you, but it will only make you stronger when it comes to relationships. I would just go with the flow and see what happens. Tell him how you feel, and ask him if there is ever going to be another chance for you two. And if it is a no, then just try moving on from there :]
Good luck!
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