my ex boyfriend and i went out for 6 months,
he broke up with me for my cousin, (and he thought i was cheating when in reality he was cheating)
well anyways my cousin and him went out for a year and 2 months.. they broke up today *she broke up with him for a new guy*
well i went to his house today not to see him,im best friends with his sister, well he was upset and he told me to come hang out with him while his sister was cooking.. now i have a boyfriend weve been dating 8 months. so i hung out with my ex and he told me to sit on his bed and he was playing a video game haha and he asked me to try to play well when i took the controls he put his arm around my waist and put his hand up the back of my shirt and was rubbing my back, im not gonna lie i did like it and he kept asking for hugs and thats all that happened well, my ex told me he wants me back but i dont know what to do, i love my boyfriend so much and i cant imagine life without him but then again old feelings for my ex are starting to come back, i dont know what i should do i mean my ex has been known to cheat but im just drawn to him i dont get why after everything that has been going on?
what should i do? should i brake up with my boyfriend?
and what we did, is that considered cheating in any way??
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Exquisitechick answered Monday October 20 2008, 10:56 pm: I personally dont think that you should get back with your ex. You've already been with your boyfriend for 8 months, and you cant imagine life without him. I dont want you making the mistake of breaking up with your boyfriend now, and then him cheating on you or breaking up with you for another girl and you trying to get back with the guy you are dating now. It will be one big mess. You have to keep in mind he broke up with you FOR YOUR COUSIN. That is pretty low, and just because she broke up with him, you are second choice.
Honestly, i think you should stay with your boyfriend now :]
Katlyn answered Monday October 20 2008, 9:54 pm: no you shouldnt get back with him the whole reason you broke up was because he accused you of cheating when he was the one doing it so stay with your current bf if you dont you'll regret it later because guys like you ex will just break your heart. And what you did isnt exactly considered cheating because you did nothing it was him so dw about it and just stay with your current bf because hes the one that you love more. good luck i hope i helped:) [ Katlyn's advice column | Ask Katlyn A Question ]
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