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friends with benefits.
Posted Sunday November 2 2008, 6:59 pm
18/ female [:
okay so please don't judge me or preach me, i would just really appreciate it if you could answer my question!
how do you make it like not awkward when you have a best guy friend and you are going to be friends with benefits. like we plan on messing around this upcoming weekend (nov 8) and i just think it's going to be weird when i first see him. like we've been talking about this for awhile, but i haven't seen him for about a month! so when i first see him i don't know what to say, or do? and i just don't know how we would start messing around. so if i went to his house, or he came to mine, then what? just be like okay, let's go to the bedroom? that sounds kind of silly to me..
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making out
Posted Sunday November 2 2008, 5:51 pm
15/f
ive hooked up(just going to 2nd) a few times and now ive been in a little slump. the guys at my school are jerks...well most of them and well at this point, id rather makeout with them than date them. problem is, i guess im not too sure how to get to that point in one night. like ill flirt a lot then when we go to watch a movie ill like snuggle with them but nothing else happens. is there anything i can do to snag a guy for sure without kissing him first?
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am i a slut? and other questions
Posted Sunday November 2 2008, 5:50 pm
16/f... my boyfriend is 15/f. we've been dating for 2 and a half months.
we have gone to third base 3 times. when he was dating his ex (for the span of a year) absolutely nothing happened... they didn't even kiss. by letting things get this far, do you think he is losing respect for me?
also, is it too soon to say i love you? because i think i do love him, but i don't know if he would freak out if i said so. what would be a good way to tell him? and is it weird when the girl says those three words first?
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How to tell him I like him?
Posted Sunday November 2 2008, 2:58 pm
There's this boy that I've been crushing on since my freshman year. I'm a junior now and he's a senior. I feel like he likes me but I'm not sure. And I want to know if he does before he graduates, and if he does like me, I want something to happen. I want to tell him that I like him but not really tell him? Like I don't want to bluntly state, hey, I like you. We're both in IB, we have no classes together, and we're both busy almost everyday.
Also, if he says no to anything (No, I don't want to hang out, No I can't hang out, No I don't like you, etc.) what should I say? How should I act?
Thanks!
16.f
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idk
Posted Sunday November 2 2008, 2:49 pm
well ive been talking to this girl for a while now but not "talking" talking just regular talk and well i like but she seems to think my friend his cute and she wants me to talk to him for her but i really dont wanna do it and i told her that and she got mad at me for it so i told her im doin it to make her happy and so i told my other friend about everything and then outta nowhere she told me that the girl i is confused about guys and that shes mad that when a guy likes her and she can tell and he wont tell her so should i help her with my friend or should i tell her i like her?
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worst situation ever...
Posted Sunday November 2 2008, 2:45 pm
okay so at a party a guy tried to hook up with me....(just makeout not like actual sex or itd be rape) he basically forced me up against a wall and i couldnt get out of it...my boyfriend of 3 months walked in and he had to saddest look on his face that ive ever seen and he just walked out the door when i tried begging him to come back. my boyfriends friends with a few of my friends and they said that he was so heartbroken and i feel like shit because i feel like i wasnt cheating on him, even though it looked that way. i like him sooo much and i would never wanna lose him but i think i did =( my friends say he said he doesnt wanna talk cause hes too upset...what should i do? =(((
16/f
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"i like someone else..."
Posted Sunday November 2 2008, 9:25 am
on saturday, i got to hang out with my boyfriend for the day. i haven't seen him in 4 months. when we first started out our relationship, i promised myself i wouldn't get in over my head, and i wouldn't get too attached. i have had boyfriends like him, where they tell me that they are a player, and don't want me to get hurt. i usually ignore it. tell them to not get too attached.
but when i saw him yesterday, the way he held me, the way he pressed his nose to mine, and the way he carefully held my tiny hand in his giant one, made me fall for him. way too deep.
later on, when i got home and he got to his, i was emailing him. i noticed he was giving me one word answers, so i asked him what was wrong. he was honest, and straight ...
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boy issue
Posted Sunday November 2 2008, 1:08 am
how do i make a boy go crzy through a kiss or makeout?
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First Boyfriend
Posted Sunday November 2 2008, 12:45 am
17/f. I dated a guy for roughly three weeks. He acted like he really liked me a lot (paid for everything, opened every door, always let me pick the music, let me drive his nice car, told my friends how much he liked me, etc). Then exactly a week ago he broke up with me, saying that since we go to different schools that it's unfair to me that we can only hang out on the weekends. So I totally understood and told him that I still wanted to be friends. However, two days after that happened, he was a total asshole to one of my friends. He also told my friend that he never even liked me at all. Besides that, he is now about to date this other girl, who he started talking to while he was dating me. We have been broken up for exactly a wee...
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I have a girlfriend but I have a bit of a crush on this other girl.
Posted Sunday November 2 2008, 12:11 am
ok I am a 17 year old male. I have been dating this girl for almost 7 months but recently I started talking to this girl. Who is really nice, and cute and awesome, and I have started to develop feelings for her. Unfortunately she has a bf too. But I told her that I had feelings for her and she told me I was her kind of guy. What's should I do?
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new feelings
Posted Sunday November 2 2008, 12:10 am
so this good friend of mine...i started liking him...and well.......................................................................
why is it easier to like make out with soemone you don't know rather than just....doing stuff like that with him??/
i mean dammit. i hate it.
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i lost the guy i like again. ):
Posted Saturday November 1 2008, 11:29 pm
last year i loved this guy and my best friend
went out with him because i told her it was
okay to. i told her it was okay because i was texting
him one night and he's like, do you know if
she likes me? and so i found out he didn't
like me. so i was in denial about liking
him and i told her it was okay.
then this year i started liking this guy
and i don't love him or anything but i really
do like him and then my best friend's friend
started dating him tonight because i was
again, in denial. why do i keep losing them?
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What to do in a relationship?
Posted Saturday November 1 2008, 9:57 pm
Alright guys I really want to know what to do when in a relationship. I'm talking about a teen relationship. I'm exactly 13 years old and I want to know what should a 13 year old be doing when in a relationship? Ex: WEEK 1: MAKE OUT
MONTH 1: FEEL UP
like that
I really want someone my own age to anaswer this this and not someone older saying I'm too young for this stuff. Like I think after 9 months is good to start having sex but wat do u think? And I mean actual sex not like bg's or hj's and please include those in their! thanks!
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it's killing me.
Posted Saturday November 1 2008, 9:28 pm
Well here's the story. I'm really too young to be even thinking about this stuff I think. My boyfriend is two years older than me. We have had sex once (I don't think he's popped my cherry yet though) and we want to do it again. We would but there is something stopping us. Pregnancy. I can't have a baby! There is no way I could get pills without my parents knowing and there is no way I'm telling them. I need help. We have condoms but I heard they aren't that great. Do they work good or not? I really need help.
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argh i dont know if he's gay
Posted Saturday November 1 2008, 4:18 pm
ok so i reaally was thinking about asking this guy out! like we've often been smiling at eachother and he always turns around to look at me or shakes his hair when he's around me. and when we're on th ebus we sometimes look at eachother for a while and then smile and it's always just really cute. BUT yesterday i heard a guy saying that he's gay. the guy is really mean and i thought he just said it because he doesnt like him. but then his friend was like: 'yeah i know he once said something like that'.
so yeah now i really dont know what to do anymore. i have like a really big crush on him now and hearing that made my heart drop a little?!
like should i still talk to him now or not? i thought he thought i was 'outgoing' as wel...
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a jealousy trick maybe?
Posted Saturday November 1 2008, 1:57 pm
My boyfriend has been mentioning things about his girl friends like last night he was telling me how this one chick looked real good in he halloween outfit and then he said sorry for saying. Later we were talking and I told him to hang on so u could fix my bra and he goes u thought you didn't wear them to bed you said they hurt your back and I was like no I never said that and he said oh that must have been someone else then srry again. It upset me a little but I acted like it was no big deal. Is it one? If so do you think he is playing the jealousy game or what?
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i need advice
Posted Saturday November 1 2008, 12:20 pm
ok umm what should you do if the boy you like goes and asks your friend out?
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Muscle weight?
Posted Saturday November 1 2008, 4:52 am
i run everydayy
im 13 years old and im like 5'4 5'5
i used to be 118 pounds [54] kilos
and i chekced toadi i weighed 120[55] kilos
do you think it could be muslce gain? cause im always runnin on my treadmille i couldnt stop crying cause i didnt wanna lose weight bt i wanted to remain the samee so yeah =[
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well this is hard
Posted Friday October 31 2008, 10:27 pm
just like the title says. im 17/male. and i guess for a dude, when i find a girl i like, i mean really like. i fall hard for them. then something happens, and it ends. but my problem now is this girl who i've known for about 6 months or so. and around aug. sept. we got serious. but it was wierd b/c, we really wasnt "going out" but we acted liked it. in sept. we went to the fair together, made out, had alot of fun. but we still wasnt "going out".and i asked her out, she said no, and basicly the reason was b/c shes best friends with one of her exs. and that was the reason b/c the dude don't really like me. and me and the girl told each other we loved each other all the time. but still wasnt "going out". and few w...
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Ha! Rejected...
Posted Friday October 31 2008, 9:49 pm
So basically, I've never, ever made the first move, cause I've never really had to. Yes I know, it's a bad way to live through life, but it's just easier. Anyway, tonight I actually get the cojones to talk to this guy, and something tells me I got blown off. Technically, he had made the first move, cause he said hi about a week ago, I just thought I'd return the favor. He seemed oddly uninterested, like he was rushing. I'm so....confused. I've never had this happen to me before. I'm not mad, just kind of amused. How do guys do that on a daily basis? How do they handle the rejection? It's not that hard for me to ignore him the next time I see him, cause if he wants bitchy, he's got it. But am I jumping to conclusions? I'm certainly not appro...
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