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a jealousy trick maybe?
My boyfriend has been mentioning things about his girl friends like last night he was telling me how this one chick looked real good in he halloween outfit and then he said sorry for saying. Later we were talking and I told him to hang on so u could fix my bra and he goes u thought you didn't wear them to bed you said they hurt your back and I was like no I never said that and he said oh that must have been someone else then srry again. It upset me a little but I acted like it was no big deal. Is it one? If so do you think he is playing the jealousy game or what?
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The best way to deal with boyfriends who try to make you feel jealous is to ignore them. Pretend like you didn't hear it or care. That keeps you in control of the situation because he has then failed in getting a reaction out of you.
However, any guy that does this a lot is not worth dating because it's a rude and insecure way to behave and it's easier to date someone who isn't always trying to upset you. Guys who actively flirt with other girls or go to strip clubs or things like that should just be dumped.
So far it sounds mild. I think by acting like it's no big deal is best. A blank stare or brush off of the comments is good, as though he said something about homework or something. When you act like no other girl is a threat to you by not even acknowledging this stuff it shows him you're confident.
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Hm...I would think that you should talk to him about it. Tell him you don't like it that he talks about other girls that way.
About the whole jealousy thing. Yes maybe he was. If he wasn't then he just needs to keep his eyes on you only. Toy should tell him that. If a girl gives him some information that you don't need to know tell him to keep it to himself unless you want him to tell you.
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