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am i a slut? and other questions
16/f... my boyfriend is 15/f. we've been dating for 2 and a half months.
we have gone to third base 3 times. when he was dating his ex (for the span of a year) absolutely nothing happened... they didn't even kiss. by letting things get this far, do you think he is losing respect for me?
also, is it too soon to say i love you? because i think i do love him, but i don't know if he would freak out if i said so. what would be a good way to tell him? and is it weird when the girl says those three words first?
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well youre not a slut youre just more experienced then him. and if he went to third base with you three times he obviously wanted it becuase if he wasnt ready for it he wouldnt have let it happen after the first time.
and about the whole love thing. if you reallly feel you love him and have strong feelings about the relationship. and everything then you can say it. youre the only person who knows how you feel about the guy so when you feel ready you can say it. love isnt a word to just throw around. its s strong meaningful word. so make sure youre ready. and i honestly dont think you are. youre only 16 years old. you still have many more people in your life who you are going to meet. youre going to date a lot more people and at 16 you dont know what love is. you may love him, but not be in love with him.
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well for one thing, i definitely dont think your slut..not one bit. you guys are at the age where your hormones start to kick in, don't sweat it girl. i wouldn't have sex with him, cause then he might lose his respect for you. i look at it this way, if you have to think you love someone then you dont love them, you just know when your head over heels for that person. so maybe your in lust with him?
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