ok so i reaally was thinking about asking this guy out! like we've often been smiling at eachother and he always turns around to look at me or shakes his hair when he's around me. and when we're on th ebus we sometimes look at eachother for a while and then smile and it's always just really cute. BUT yesterday i heard a guy saying that he's gay. the guy is really mean and i thought he just said it because he doesnt like him. but then his friend was like: 'yeah i know he once said something like that'.
so yeah now i really dont know what to do anymore. i have like a really big crush on him now and hearing that made my heart drop a little?!
like should i still talk to him now or not? i thought he thought i was 'outgoing' as well and someone just had to make the first move and TALK. but shiit i really dont know what to do now. i mean yesterday when he smiles at me again i ignored him because i thought he was just making fun of me the whole time or something? but now i feel bad. and alright i admit that he looks maybe a little bit like what somebody might call 'gay'. but i never really thought he was. i mean guys can be stylish without being gay right? and even if he is i still wanna be at least friends cause he seems really nice. arghhh what now???
Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Sunday November 2 2008, 1:05 am: Ask him.
Talk to him a little bit and be like i heard a rummor that you were gay and i was just wondering if it was true. Weather he sayd yes or no you should be like we should hang out sometime as friends. get to know him some. [ Sweet_LiL_Angel's advice column | Ask Sweet_LiL_Angel A Question ]
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