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friends with benefits.
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okay so please don't judge me or preach me, i would just really appreciate it if you could answer my question!
how do you make it like not awkward when you have a best guy friend and you are going to be friends with benefits. like we plan on messing around this upcoming weekend (nov 8) and i just think it's going to be weird when i first see him. like we've been talking about this for awhile, but i haven't seen him for about a month! so when i first see him i don't know what to say, or do? and i just don't know how we would start messing around. so if i went to his house, or he came to mine, then what? just be like okay, let's go to the bedroom? that sounds kind of silly to me..
any suggestions? and any ways i can make him REALLY want me when he first sees me [; THANKS!
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i think all you have to do is be yourself. Hug him when you first see him catch up talk about stuff get comfortable with eachother's presence. make it less awkward as possible. i tihnk the greatest thing to do is watch a movie and like turn the lights off becuase you will start up more easily if your cuddleing with eachother.
Hope i helpedd!
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i can totally relate!
well, when this happened to me
i just wore something really sexy, but comfy at the same time lol
i wore a wife beater, with those short hollister shorts, ya...it worked.
cause they wont be able to stop fantasizing whats underneath :)
and just dont make it awkward on your part, give him a huge hug when you first see him...and chill and watch some tv, or a movie...and cuddle some, and hopefully that will lead up to more :)
hope i helped!!!
let me know
*Bri*
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Okay, I can relate to your question because my sister has a friend with benefits, that him & her do quite often. You dont only want to be sloppy seconds, you want to be his one and only right. Well you need to make that clear to him the night he comes over. Simply say to him, "I dont want us to continue having sex with you, until you give me your word that I'm the only one you want" And it's up to you to make sure that he keeps his word. As for if he comes to your house or if you go to his. Don't be that assertive, don't rush him straight into bed, thats kind of weird. Simply sit down, and let him strike up a conversation with you, and than while you are talking, let him know about how you feel for him and how you no longer just want to be friends but much more.
Please leave me feedback on my answer ThankYou :)
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