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First Boyfriend
17/f. I dated a guy for roughly three weeks. He acted like he really liked me a lot (paid for everything, opened every door, always let me pick the music, let me drive his nice car, told my friends how much he liked me, etc). Then exactly a week ago he broke up with me, saying that since we go to different schools that it's unfair to me that we can only hang out on the weekends. So I totally understood and told him that I still wanted to be friends. However, two days after that happened, he was a total asshole to one of my friends. He also told my friend that he never even liked me at all. Besides that, he is now about to date this other girl, who he started talking to while he was dating me. We have been broken up for exactly a week. I'm over him because he's a douchebag. But it makes me feel really stupid that I dated such a jerk. So I don't know how to react at all... this was my first relationship ever. Is it normal for guys to start dating other people that quickly? I just keep thinking about how much of a moron I am for letting someone do that to me. I don't want him in my life whatsoever (not even as a friend), but should I still be mad at him for doing that to me or should I let it go?
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No, it is not normal for guys to start dating other people again, for at least a month or two after they broke up with a girl. The only time a guy starts dating again that quickly is if he's conceited, thinks he's a pimp, just doesn't love the person he's currently dating. So by him doing these things your saying, he didn't love you, he just used you. And also no, you shouldn't be mad at him for doing what he did to you, he may have been your first, but dont be mad, jus forgive him and REMEMBER what he did to you. Just because you forgive him doesn't mean you forget. You use this new taught lesson in your next relationship with a guy in order to know what to do next and to know what's coming. And to know, never to love a guy unless your ABSOLUTELY sure he loves you back. Be the bigger person and be the more mature person and let it go. Trust me when I say you'll feel a lot better. It is going to take some time to let it go, because I know you have so much anger built up inside of you right about now, but when you feel it's time, than it's time.
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Don't feel stupid it isn't your fault. He sounds like he doesn't know what he wants out of a relationship. A gentleman when he is with a lady but when he gets confused about whome he likes or something like that he turns out to be a Jerk. Let it go it might take a little bit of time. but he isnt worth the drama.
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Well, you should not feel like a moron. Things like this happens to the best of us. You should go through your emotions and then move on. You should be happy that you did not stay with that guy. Anyone who moves on from you that quick did not deserve your time anyway, and trust me sweet heart your time is precious.
You do have a right to be mad in a way, but I say choose to be happy. Be glad that he is not your problem. No one wants a "douchebag" for a boyfriend. You are smart enough to know that you don't need him as your friend, now be smart enough to know that you are not a moron. You are just a caring person and someone tried to take advantage of that.
Try to think about other things, you have it in you to move on for sure. Good Luck I hope that this helps!!!!!!!!
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