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Posted Thursday November 20 2008, 7:13 pm

Me and my boyfriend of almost 3 months had sex on monday, for the first time. I love him so much :) , but then someone told me that if you have sex that soon, then you get bored of each other and you stop talking and just have sex. Is this true? I want to be with him for a long time.
Tell me what you think, thanks.

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turn on


Posted Thursday November 20 2008, 6:42 pm

what are some good ways to turn my boyfriend on or tease him? he does it to me all the time and im trying to figure out how to do it back

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How to ask a guy out when you're on different levels


Posted Thursday November 20 2008, 6:08 pm

I know this guy in one of my classes. We are both seniors. He's athletic, funny and has a lot of common sense, but not academic smarts. However, while I do have a great sense of humor and am highly intelligent, I lack common sense(sometimes). I want to talk to him and (eventually) give him my phone number so we can start texting, but I can't seem to figure out how to go about that. We are both somewhat shy people. Any advice?

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Since when are we in a relationship?


Posted Thursday November 20 2008, 5:59 pm

16/f

There's this guy in my shop named Austin. He's pretty cute and I've been talking to him this past week. He invited me to the movies this weekend the other day and gave me his number. Today when I got home i checked my facebook and it said that Austin put me and him as "in a relationship" and I was supposed to confirm that we were. So, I left it because we aren't in a relationship last time i checked. Im so confused because in person he does not seem like that kind of weirdo person. Does anyone have any ideas as
to why he would put us as "in a relationship?"


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Why won't he call?


Posted Thursday November 20 2008, 5:31 pm

16/f

So this guy Alex started talking to me last week and we flirted a lot so at the end of the week I asked him for his number and he gave it to me. So i texted him on monday and he talked to me for a little bit (through text) then on tuesday night i asked him (through text) to call me at 11 and he said he would and he never did. So yesterday i texted him calling him a jerk and when he asked why i said because you never called me and then he apologized and said he fell asleep. I asked him to call last night if he was up and he said he would if he was awake...he never called. He never says anything to me in school. On tuesday he said hi to me for a second. I think I might like him a bit. However, I really don't want to annoy...

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Me and a guy and we both like eachother


Posted Thursday November 20 2008, 4:51 pm

Okay so this guy I really like likes me back (he told me) but he's a player. I mean all the girls like him. He's on the fb team and rotc and baseball. But he's been acting different like only hanging with me. But like he hasn't asked me out yet. He said he might. But omg I want to tell him how much I like him but all the girls are always all over him. How so I let him know that I REALLY like him?

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make out-


Posted Thursday November 20 2008, 3:32 pm

15/f
Never made out with anyone before. Only pop kissed. So, i asked how to make out on here before and i got a bunch of different answers and none are exactly alike and i want one way to do it so i know how. I am confused on which one me and my boyfriend will be doing. What do i do? Please tell me what to do or how to make out. I want to know what i'm doing and i don't want to freak out when it's time. When he starts making out with me, i want to do it right so he's impressed and he's not like "Whoa, what are you doing?" Please help!

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boyfriend teasing me


Posted Wednesday November 19 2008, 10:30 pm

okay well im a real tease around my boyfriend, like ill kiss all around his lips but not on his lips. but he wants to know how to do that back to me and he cant thing of anything to do to me to tease me like that...
guys are is there anything you do to your girls to tease them?
or girls is there anything your guys do to you that make you go absolutly crazy?

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lap dance


Posted Wednesday November 19 2008, 9:30 pm

okay i got one of them dumb texts that says what do you want from me, hug kiss, blah blah blah, well i sent one to my boyfriend and it had lap dance, and he was joking arouund when he said he wanted one but i told him id do it anyway, only problem is im not sure exactly how to give him one.
i know a couple little things, like the i can touch him but he cant touch me and a couple little things liek that but im not sure wat else to do
any help is appreciated.
thanks

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exboyfriend


Posted Wednesday November 19 2008, 8:19 pm

15/f
okay i was with my ex boyfriend for 3 years, the reason why we broke up was because he moved. [not on and off]
so now its a few months later... and i'm friends with alot of guys it's just i'm more of the friend type i guess. not to sound conceited, but i know i'm alright looking, better then average. older guys always want to hook up with me but i don't. i want a boyfriend and to have that feeling to like some one again. i'm really outgoing too & im preppyy. so im not a town boy or anything of that sort. my other friend is extremley shy and alot of guys like and wanna go out with her. before my boyfriend.. guys asked me out.. i just didnt like them to go out with them. ughh help? i just dont understand why guys only see me as a friend type? [so im guessing]

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how to break it off


Posted Wednesday November 19 2008, 7:14 pm

ok well i have been with this guy and this is the same one i had problems with on my last question, but things had gotten better but now are getting worse and im tired of it i think i shouldnt have to be so angry all the time and wonder if im important to him i need a guy who will show me and treat me like i am so i am thinking of calling it off i just dont know exactly how to break up with him i mean we have been through alot and i care for him i dont want to hurt him but at the same time i need to just move on i still wanna be his friend though:( and advice would help at this point because im so lost and i know this break up will hurt me to

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best friend vs. boyfriend


Posted Wednesday November 19 2008, 7:14 pm

it's actually really complicated, i'm not a player.. i can promise you that. there's rarely a time where i play people. this is kinda different, i don't know what is going on in my mind.

my best friend and i had a thing before, but apparently we haven't gotten over our 'thing' yet. cause, i still like him.. and he still likes me. so i'm kind of stuck in between my boyfriend and my best friend. the thing is about my boyfriend, he can rarely go out.. and talk on the phone. but we see each other at school at the time, so what worries me is that.. what if every break comes up.. like a 3 week break or month break or something? i can't stand to not see my boyfriend for 2 weeks... because i start loosing feelings from there, hey i c...

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Is it okay to tell?


Posted Wednesday November 19 2008, 6:38 pm

If you were in a relationship, or otherwise 'involved' with someone in some way, and a good friend had a crush on you, would you want to know? Or would you rather they kept it to themselves.

I'd love really honest opinions.

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What should I do about my relationship?


Posted Wednesday November 19 2008, 5:52 pm

Alright so i have a boyfriend, and we have been dating for over nine months. We have been sexually active and i want to stop, but he doesnt. What are some things i should say to him or tell him to convince him not to do it anymore? We dont do it that much anymore, but i just want to stop completely.
Whats your advice?
Thanks.

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still can't get over ex


Posted Wednesday November 19 2008, 5:52 pm

My ex and I broke up a few months ago. It was a horrible, messy breakup and we aren't speaking. We go to the same school and my friends are also his friends. I think he's over it, but I'm still extremely hurt and depressed. My friends & family are tired of hearing me talk about him, and I'm tired of thinking about him. We had a serious relationship for 2 years, and it's killing me it didn't work out. How do I get over this already? It's ruined friendships and has affected my school work.

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Giving my boyfriend a blow job


Posted Wednesday November 19 2008, 5:10 pm

okay i started to give my boyfriend a bj last sunday, but i didnt really know what i was doing so i didnt go long enough and he didnt ejaculate. i told him id make up for it this weekend and give him one the right way.
well ive been thinking bout it a lot! and i know i cant get pregnate or anything, but is it safe?

im the first girl thats given him a blow job and hes never had sex or anything so like this is the first "sexual activity" either of us has had but i wanna make sure its safe for me and him both if i do it again.

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he doesn't care


Posted Wednesday November 19 2008, 4:44 pm

the guys i go for ALWAYS hurt me, as a result i have become pretty negative as far as relationships go. the person who messed me up the most though was this boy david. my neighbor jake brought me to a party where i ended up meeting a bunch of guys from his all boys school. the host was cute and we ended up making out but i found out he was a womanizer. well anyways, david had a girlfriend at the time of the party but i guess he got messed up and ended up making out with this really slutty not very attractive model. that was the night i met david. he gave me and jake a ride home from the party and he was cute and charming and asked for my number just in case he got lost going home and needed directions. from that night forward we began calli...

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confused ABOUT A BABY


Posted Wednesday November 19 2008, 4:20 pm

i am 20 year old male and i been with My girl foralmost three years and we have a baby on the way but a year and some time ago i cheated on her with this girl and we messed around twice WITH protection and she got pregnant the baby is now five months and and every since she was pregnant i asked for a dna test and she refused to give me one saying things like no and she would think about it i saw the baby once when he was a month but i say pic of the baby and the baby have my nose and my lips so what should i do should i jus take care of a baby that i dont know is mine because i dont want to seem like a bad person i really am trying to but the female is making me feel like see is hiding something

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why cant i say bye


Posted Wednesday November 19 2008, 3:23 pm

im in a bad relationship its violent dramatic and we dont trust each other but somehow we do love each other. we cant let go adn dont want to we want to make it work but were so alike its hard. he says really hurtful things and so do i but we always forgive. last night it got way more crazy and i havent slept ate or thought straight since. i keep crying and i really feel like he wants to be with someone else now. how do i feel better or make this work

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PRESENTSSSSSS!!!


Posted Wednesday November 19 2008, 2:30 pm

I want to get my boyfriend something
he would really appreciate for x-mas!
he is very into cars!
and things like that...
any ideas????

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