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best friend vs. boyfriend
it's actually really complicated, i'm not a player.. i can promise you that. there's rarely a time where i play people. this is kinda different, i don't know what is going on in my mind.
my best friend and i had a thing before, but apparently we haven't gotten over our 'thing' yet. cause, i still like him.. and he still likes me. so i'm kind of stuck in between my boyfriend and my best friend. the thing is about my boyfriend, he can rarely go out.. and talk on the phone. but we see each other at school at the time, so what worries me is that.. what if every break comes up.. like a 3 week break or month break or something? i can't stand to not see my boyfriend for 2 weeks... because i start loosing feelings from there, hey i can't control my feelings. and most of the time, i hang out with my best friend. and my best friend acts more like a boyfriend than my actual boyfriend does. my actual boyfriend doesn't do much, i'm the person who wears the pants in the relationship... i always call.. but he sometimes never picks up.
the thing is, my best friend is probably thinking that i'm using him for things i'm not getting from my current boyfriend. but i'm not, i know it's not right... but i don't know why i keep doing it. i don't ever let anybody get into my relationships, i don't know why i let him get into my relationship. i feel alot more comfortable with my best friend than i do with my current boyfriend, because i don't know much about my current boyfriend (he's shy). me and my best friend can talk for hours and stuff, but my current boyfriend.. the longest time i talked to him was for 30 minutes, that's because i forced him to stay on the phone. -_____-" i don't know what to do, my best friend wants to talk to me tonight about something... i'm guessing it's bad, so i might have to choose my boyfriend or him. loose one and gain one.
i don't know what to do, help me please! btw, my current boyfriend is super sensitive because his last girlfriend and him had a bad break up, i'm basically his first girlfriend since his last girlfriend used him to get to someone else. and i don't want to hurt any of them..
i don't wanna loose neilsen, but yet.. i don't know.
i still would stay friends with both of them, if i could.... please help! ASAP!
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I would honestly talk to your best friend, ask him what he feels.
Becauswe to me it seems like you to still have the connection, and if your comfortable, and can talk and have fun with him...i would'nt want to lose that.
As for your boyfriend it honestly does'nt seem like theres much there.
so you need to ask yourself which would make (you) happy, and dont worry about what other people would think and what not.
:)
*Bri*
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Tell your current boyfriend how you feel. How only seeing him at school isn't working out for you. Tell him about winter break or whatever and how you wont be able to see him. As for your best friend i would really think about it. you could lose a beat friend over a relationship but if you truely feel like you have some hard feeling for him go for it. you never no but remember if this don't work out as planned you may lose him as a friend and tell him that if you feel it may happen
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It sounds like you and your bestfriend still have feelings for each other,you should think about who you care for most. Your current boyfriend or your bestfriend. It may be hard to choose but,know one know how you truelly feel about the guys but you. If you end up braking up with the guy lay it down gently....Hope I helped and good luck!=]
Darci X,15/f
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