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why cant i say bye
im in a bad relationship its violent dramatic and we dont trust each other but somehow we do love each other. we cant let go adn dont want to we want to make it work but were so alike its hard. he says really hurtful things and so do i but we always forgive. last night it got way more crazy and i havent slept ate or thought straight since. i keep crying and i really feel like he wants to be with someone else now. how do i feel better or make this work
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ok hun i was in the same place as you i was put in the hospital b/c he drainded my mind we dated for 6 months and i thought i loved him but he beat me and all that you can find someone better just end yea its gunna be hard to do just have someone with you when you do it so he doesnt hurt you and the next couple months stay with people dont go out on your own....he stacked me for months and then i was by myself he had some gurl jump me so just watch your self please its your chose what you do but the relationship will not get beter from here it will get worse. he is so used to what he is doing and he sees that he can do it to you
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as long as you are in this type of relationship, you won't ever feel better. It's extremely difficult to shake because you care so much, and you love so hard. The connection between the two of you has gotten to be an obsession. You not only want it, but your mind and body feels a need for it. You can only make a decision between the relationship and yourself. You do not want to allow this to let you self destruct. If the two of you can't get along in a productive way, as strong as your love is you may just not be right fir eachother. You can take some time apart and see if it gives you perspective, but if violence is always an issue, your safety needs to come first. Don't put yourself in situations that have the potential to get out of hand like that. If you two go at it and somehow he accidently paralyzes or murders you, no one will believe him and you will have lost everything. All it takes is a push that is a little to rough, or an unexpected fall. Choose yourself over this relationship if your well being is in jeoporady.
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you have two options.. either break things off and move on. find someone who you can get aalong with better, there are pleanty of other fish in the sea. OR you can try talking things out with him. address the fact that you guys's fights are a big problem and work on treating each other better. if things dont get better see if you really think the relationship is worth it despite the fact he makes you feel like shit. personally im not one to be with someone like that but if you can tolerate it and you really like him that much you should stay with him even if he wont change. hope i helped!
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