Question Posted Wednesday November 19 2008, 6:38 pm
If you were in a relationship, or otherwise 'involved' with someone in some way, and a good friend had a crush on you, would you want to know? Or would you rather they kept it to themselves.
Jami answered Friday November 21 2008, 12:14 am: I would like to know because every relationship is not a good one, so my status at that time might not be the deal breaker. It is also possible that I could have feelings for this friend as well but never said anything. If I know that I want my current partner for sure, having this new information would not bother or sway me. It usually creates a problem when the person in a relationship is unsure about what they really want. If you are flattered by your friend but want your current partner, there would be no problem for you. If someone is interested they should let the other person know. You have your own choice to make, so it's really up to you whether or not this revealation matters. The only time I feel it should be kept inside is if the couple is married. [ Jami's advice column | Ask Jami A Question ]
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