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Why won't he call?
16/f
So this guy Alex started talking to me last week and we flirted a lot so at the end of the week I asked him for his number and he gave it to me. So i texted him on monday and he talked to me for a little bit (through text) then on tuesday night i asked him (through text) to call me at 11 and he said he would and he never did. So yesterday i texted him calling him a jerk and when he asked why i said because you never called me and then he apologized and said he fell asleep. I asked him to call last night if he was up and he said he would if he was awake...he never called. He never says anything to me in school. On tuesday he said hi to me for a second. I think I might like him a bit. However, I really don't want to annoy him. So should i ask him to call me earlier like 10? Or should i call him myself. Or should i just give up on him. Because I rather leave it where we're at than him end up hating me. Help?
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Most guys are like this to be honest, the ones that don't call anyway.
As for him ignoring you in school, he is probably acting that that because he thinks you like him. If a guy thinks a girl likes him (even if they are complete flirts), they'll get distant and feel awkward around that girl. It's happened to me before when I asked a guy out that used to be my best friend. After that day, he would avoid me at all costs and even quit walking home from school with me. My dad always told me, that if a guy doesn't call a girl back, he obviously doesn't care too much. So go find the guy that loves to talk to you, and wants to call you back :)
Hopefully I was of some help to you
19/F
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I've been in your same situation and it's really frustrating. But you don't want the guy to get annoyed or you don't want to push him away. So for a little while I would just back off and not say anything to him. That's the best way to find out if he is really into you. Just see if he texts you first within the next couple of days. If he doesn't then you may want to try one more time and if he still acts the same way and doesn't call when you ask.. then I would give up, just so he doesn't end up getting annoyed.
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