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Help! I am weak...
Posted Tuesday November 25 2008, 9:54 am
We know we are not right for each other. There is a tremendous amount of tension and resistance to connect on his part because he is afraid of getting hurt.
He is bipolar on meds, 13 years older, jobless, broke and struggling with erectile dysfunction. I am a single mom with a six years old daughter, working professional who makes a good living supporting me and my daughter.
He is only interested in having sex with me when we meet, he seldom calls me and if he does, he hangs up after one ring, expecting me to call him back.
He tells me he's seeing other girls and then I would be hurt and then he says he was only making it up to test me. He's been testing me for over one and a half years now. I ...
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Great...
Posted Tuesday November 25 2008, 1:08 am
Very long story, but here's the extremely short version. Well, I was going to break up with my boyfriend last monday. But apparently he was suspended until friday. I didn't have his number, so I couldn't do it over the weekend. Now he's back and completely ignoring me. I think someone told him we were over or that I was planning to end it, but I have no idea. He is completely ignoring me. Should I talk to him about it to make it "official" or just leave it? Thanks!
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my good friends crushh
Posted Monday November 24 2008, 6:45 pm
alright so me and my friend hung out with these boys named charlie and noah and craig. they went home and i was tellin my friend how i though i might have a crush on charlie and i could see myself dating him and then she told me to talk to him. welll now she talks to him all the time and she likes him and i think he likes her but i have started to like him a lot to :[ but i love my friend so idk what to do. please help?
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turn onnnn
Posted Monday November 24 2008, 4:59 pm
i wanna flirt and tease my boyfriend and people told me to like whisper in his ear in like a seducative voice and stuff but what would i say? anddd what else can i do?
thanksss! (:
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can someone change you?
Posted Monday November 24 2008, 11:17 am
is it possible for someone else to change you who are? my best guy friend has been going out with his girlfriend for three years and he completely changed and i think she changed him. the thing is i always hear people saying "you can not change someone, you can only change yourself" but i know this is not how he wants to be because i have talked to him about it so many times. she pretty much made him lose all his friends, including me (we were friends for four years..) because she wants to be with him 24/7 and he said he feels bad saying no to her. i hate how he is when he is with her, he is so different than when i knew him before he went out with her. it's like he only wants me when she is not around, and that does not fly with ...
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AAhh
Posted Monday November 24 2008, 8:25 am
16 female,
This guy who i have liked for ages, i recently slept with twice (we both lost our virginity to each other), ever since it has be really awkward and nothing has really happened, i really want to talk to him and stuff but theres nothing to say. I kind of gave up although i cant get him out of my head its driving me crazy i like him so much! I phonned him on friday and told him how much i liked him stupidly ( me and him were both drunk) and he was just saying "cool and good" and then i asked him if he likes me and he said "dunno" so i just left it at that i have to see him tomorrow at school and i dont no what to do as iv probably made it more awkward. He told me he liked me ages ago but he also said can...
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something meaningful anyone has said to you
Posted Monday November 24 2008, 12:19 am
what is the most meaningful thing anyone has ever said to you when you were at such a low point in you're life? i would really love to know what people say to others, something that they will keep with them forever. any advice that helped you get through some rough times, because right now i'm going through really hard times.
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I am in love with my pastor
Posted Sunday November 23 2008, 10:44 pm
I am a single divorced parent of four and very attractive. Although I am a 40 female, I often get "carded" or mistaken as my 20 yr old's sister. My delimma is that I have not been blessed regarding relationships whereas someone loves me as much as I love them. I started attending this huge church three years ago. I have always been active in church in another state. On my first visit, which was business related, the pastor, who was single, made a point to introduce himself to me. I brushed it off because I was seeing someone at the time. Recently, my friends who visits from other churches notice how he stares at me during service in a church of over 1500 members per service. I have noticed that he seeks me out and have c...
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friends or not
Posted Sunday November 23 2008, 9:51 pm
ive liked a guy over 3 years
my friends got involved try getting me to talk to him. he knows i like him. my group and his group became good friends
long story short, in the end my friends are better friends with him. i am still to shy. i try and talk to him but he just doesnt always talk back. he is shy oo, but i think its cuz he knows i like him but i dont know
my friends are closer to him and it hurts me. what do i do?
stop hanging with them all, try harder with him, ot just ignore everything.
please help!!
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help
Posted Sunday November 23 2008, 9:09 pm
kayy i like this but hes not really showign interest do i give up or try harder?? i really like him but i think ive tried alot..?
thanks
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rich boyfriend.
Posted Sunday November 23 2008, 8:18 pm
i'm 14, and i have this boyfriend, that is extremely rich. and christmas is coming up. and he is going to be getting me all these expensive things my friend told me, and i'm not at all rich. my single mom makes an average pay. so, whatever i get him i'm scared he's going to be like "oh, thanks." like as in a way like 'oh-i-could-buy-this-anytime-i-want' kind of way. so what should i get him, that would be nice. even if they are separate things. i just really don't know what to do. so if you any suggestions, ill be fully considered to them. thanks.
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going back to him.
Posted Sunday November 23 2008, 7:30 pm
this is kinda long, i suppose =P
okay, well last may i met this boy..he was like everything i could ever ask for. in june we got serious.. i really did love him. it was like a perfect relationship. at the end of july we broke up because his mom was kind of a lunatic and like tried to put him on house arrest. then middle of august we got back together and that was pretty good. then we broke up because it was the school year and we go to different schools and it was hard. then in february he got a girlfriend. they were completely in love. they lasted for like 7-8 months and then he broke up with her because she was a control freak. now, he is trying to get me back. and i mean i did love him and part of me still does.. but he did things...
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Maybe he kinda sorta-ish likes me?
Posted Sunday November 23 2008, 6:46 pm
So theres this guy I met this year when school started
Im a Freshamn, 14
He's Sophmore, 16
He's in my favorite class & we talk throughtout the whole class, making the teacher hate us now
So this weekend, we started texting on Saturday like 10am
& we havent stopped since then & its 6:44pm Sunday
{besides sleeping of coarse}
Anyway, today he was like "its amazing that we've texted nonstop all weekend"
Then he was like "your basically the only one of been texting"
This guy is really sweet & cute, but I dont think Im pretty at all
Could this maybe be a sign that he MIGHT possibly just a TAD BIT like me?
Thanks in advance
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boyfriend talk about sex
Posted Sunday November 23 2008, 6:08 pm
i was just wondering, how long does it usually take before couples talk about sex? do they even talk about sex? cause i've been dating a guy for almost 4 months...hes such a great guy...the farthest we've gone is making out...but we havent had a "sex talk" yet...and how do you bring it up? i don't really feel comfortable talking about it but i like him so much and i feel so comfortable doing anything but that talk with him....any advice?
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Flirting/Attracting Guys
Posted Sunday November 23 2008, 5:51 pm
Hi. well i think im alright with guys but i dont know how to branch out and meet new guys. i already know all the guys in my classes and stuff and im not intereste. i know there must be amazing guys out there but i dont know how to meet them. please help! how should i get to know guys i dont have classes with/ and how should i flirt with guy i just randomly meet and how do i branch out? thank you so much! i'll rate :]
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makinnngout
Posted Sunday November 23 2008, 3:15 pm
what things can girls do when theyre making out with a guy. like, what do guys like. not like LETS GET NAKED but like little tips of stuff like what girls can do
sorry that i worded this very badly.
hope you allll understand haha
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getting boyfriend horny/hard?
Posted Sunday November 23 2008, 2:09 pm
sometimes when we're making out he'll pick me up off the couch and put me on his lap and i was just kinda wondering is he getting hard? do all guys get boners? how will i know if hes getting one? thanks
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Ex boyfriend is a jerk
Posted Sunday November 23 2008, 1:57 pm
Hey guys! 15/F
(really long, im sorry brace yourself)
Okay, so i recently broke up with my boyfriend like 2 days ago. Let's call him tom. So tom and i were going out for a littleen the sweet obs over ten months. He was/is so obsessed with me! Like, not even the sweet obsessed, where he shows it a little. If any of you saw just friends, you know the wall covered with pictures? Let's just say thats him. He was OBSESSED. But, he tried way to hard to impress me. SO he lied alot, and it was so obvious he was doing it. SO i confronted him about it a few times. He was like "sure no problem". SO he did it a few times after that, and i really started to get mad. He was talking about us getting married, and our kids and where ...
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so i like this boyy
Posted Sunday November 23 2008, 1:06 pm
ok yeah so i like him
yeah but im someone who never ever datess
and last nite he told me he liked me a lot!and i told him i liked him too but then he was like ithought u dont date and im confused because i really like him! but i just dont date because i dont trust myself when i have a boyfriend because i always cheat. is there anyway that i can trust myself enough to not cheat! or should i just not date him?
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first time
Posted Sunday November 23 2008, 2:04 am
i am with a guy that i am completely in love with and he is in love with me.we are going to have sex for the first time and i want to know what to exspect. does it and will it feel good the first time? will i be okay if i use the condom properly?
if it hurts what will make it hurt less.
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