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kayy i like this but hes not really showign interest do i give up or try harder?? i really like him but i think ive tried alot..?
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i know how that feels. i went through that for four years and i kept holding on, hoping that maybe he would care, i tried so hard but you know what? after this weekend, all that work just came back and slapped me in the face. i put four years into a boy, into our friendship. i was always the one trying to make things work, no matter what he did to me i kept taking him back, hoping things would change but they didn't. the longer i held on, the more it hurts now. i was a strong believer that people should never give up on something they want but now i have a completely different view on that. if someone is not putting forth the same effort you are, why waste your time on them? maybe this is not what you want to hear, and i didn't want to hear it either from my friends. they told me i was wasting my time on this boy, that i deserved better than him and that i could find a guy that actually cared but i didn't listen. i thought he was different, i thought things were going to work out but i should of listened to my friends. i loved this boy, i couldn't possibly give up on him but i finally decided that enough was enough and i needed to do what was right for me. i didn't want to move on, trust me. he broke my heart, he didn't care about me as much as i cared about him. my grandma told me "don't ever fight for someone that isn't going to fight for you, don't ever chase them, let them chase you" and i realized she was right. so please don't make the mistake i made, move on. it may be hard, but in the end it will be on of the best decisions you'll make :) hope i could help ya if you need anything else i'm always here ♥ LU
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