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Very long story, but here's the extremely short version. Well, I was going to break up with my boyfriend last monday. But apparently he was suspended until friday. I didn't have his number, so I couldn't do it over the weekend. Now he's back and completely ignoring me. I think someone told him we were over or that I was planning to end it, but I have no idea. He is completely ignoring me. Should I talk to him about it to make it "official" or just leave it? Thanks!
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If he is ignoring you as in, you go up to him he walks away, then I would probably just find another way of telling him. I'm not a big fan of messengers but maybe tell one of his friends to tell him, or maybe e-mail/instant message him.
The reason I think you should do it is to save yourself completely. If you started seeing someone else, you don't want him getting in the way of him thinking you two are together, you don't want to be labeled a cheater, etc. So yes, I think you should make it official.
♥ steph.
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definetly ask him about it. you don't know the circumstances and you need to make it official. I am sure you will feel bad if you don't and will question a lot. He also deserves to know why.
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in my experience or what ive seen, those who leave questions between loved ones, or exs usually get hurt more when they dont confront a problem between each other. they usually end up hating each other for the rest of their lives. it seems that it would be better to confront him now and lay it on the table. it may hurt if he acts like a dick now, but itd be better if it were now than to drag it out and make it worse later.
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You should make it official so he doesnt end up saying well you never actually ended it if he doesnt talk to you or listen to you then write it on his facebook,msn or watever or you could write a note and tell him thats it over or tell his friend to tell him if nothing else works but ya make it official so nuthing is left just hanging.
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