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i dont understand how you know...
Posted Wednesday December 3 2008, 10:40 pm
how do you know if you have come across love and what is it anyways?
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Why is he doing this?
Posted Wednesday December 3 2008, 7:10 pm
Okay so I am 13, in the 8th grade and I am a girl. Ever since 7th grade I have had the biggest crush on this boy, lets call him Collin. In 7th grade the crush was not too bad, it wasn't until the summer before 8th grade that I started to talk to him, A LOT and I really fell head over heels. I know almost everything about him, his middle name, his favorite color, his favorite food, his biggest fear etc. and he knows all of these things about me. We have gotten really close and stuff but this is all outside of school, like at friends houses where not a lot of people are around or on IM or something. Lately, however, we have been talking a lot more at school and I walk to class with him and stuff like that. But then something weird happened. ...
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Chasing a boy (long, but I would appreciate your help!)
Posted Wednesday December 3 2008, 4:01 pm
There's a boy (A) who I was in a serious relationship with until we broke up in February, and I was devestated, but we were still close friends, although we started drifting apart since we go to different schools. I tried to get over it, and over the summer I casually dated another guy (B) who I definitely was not into as much as A. So when A and I were catching up one day, he asked if I was seeing anyone, just because he was curious, and I explained that I was dating B but I wasn't sure where it would go. So then he told me he wanted another chance at us being together, and so a few weeks later I decided I was wasting my time with B and took up A's offer. It ended up he broke up with me after only a week because he said it felt like we...
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big deal or not
Posted Wednesday December 3 2008, 3:59 pm
theres this boy whos said he liked me and i finally told him that i like him too. were not going out or anything, and today i found out that he has been talking about my boobs with his friends. i feel mad and disrespected but then on the other hand its like we are offical or anything and im the one that wanted it to be like that.
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guy
Posted Wednesday December 3 2008, 8:47 am
I like a guy but im not sure if he likes me back how can i no
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awkward silences?
Posted Tuesday December 2 2008, 11:57 pm
i don't really like driving with other people, well besides my best friends because there are always awkward silences! like when you're with a boy you like, and you are driving and he is in the passenger seat, it's like we don't really talk? and it's just an awkward silence, and sometimes i will be like "whats wrong" just to say something but i just don't know how to not have awkward silences? it's fine when we're together like at someone's house, but while driving it is really awkward sometimes. does this happen to anyone else? what do you usually say, or do? thanks :)! 18/f by the way
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In a typical realationship
Posted Tuesday December 2 2008, 9:36 pm
How long do you wait before going to the next "base"?
for each one?
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fighting.
Posted Tuesday December 2 2008, 7:43 pm
Alright.. basically me and my boyfriend have been together over a year, then he moved to florida to go to college, i lived here still in new york.. we tried to be together, he couldnt put forth the effort to even talk to me, and this was us trying to work our a long distance relationship. then we broke up, ididnt talk to him for a few weeks, then a couple weekends in a row i got drunk with his friends that still lived here, and ended up texting him and talking to him on the phone.. so ya, then he ended up getting into two car accidents down there, made me care for him completely, on account last year i lost my best friend.. i dont ever wanna let anyone out of my life i care for. he recently a month ago ended up coming home cause things didn...
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I really want to ask him out, but I am not sure!
Posted Tuesday December 2 2008, 6:26 pm
14/f-I really like this guy, his name is Ruben, and I have liked him since the beginning of the school year. He is really a great guy, but we don't get to talk much, and I really want to ask him out, but I am not sure how. And on top of that, I think he has a gf. Plus, I don't think he likes me because of how quiet he is around me. Idk though because when he is around his friends, he is almost as quiet as he is around me. I think that we would be great together, but I am not sure why I just can't seem to get close to him. When we hang out, I just freeze up, not like what I usually do around my guy friends, but just like freeze up and can't seem to find the right conversation and words to say. He is one of the sweetest guys I know and he is ...
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he touched me what should i do?
Posted Tuesday December 2 2008, 4:52 pm
Well i have this friend that i've known for years, he's been with this girl of his for a very long time and even though she completely despises me, is a complete ditz, and couldn't come up with something interest and indepth to talk about to save her life , he's stayed with her, mostly out of the inability to break it off and the fact that he doesn't really care one way or the other since he wouldn't gain anything by leaving. needless to say he;s indifferent and putting just enough effort into it to make sure he still gets a fuck every once in awhile, besides she's too stupid to see through anything like that. He's told me a few times he's in love with me but we always agree its better not to really talk or act on those types of emotions si...
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Lost Interest?
Posted Tuesday December 2 2008, 4:50 pm
Okay so for the past week i've been dating this guy. We havent hung out yet, weve only been texting, and talking on the phone. But he always sent me texts that were cute and made me smile. Starting this sunday, he was being very distant, and either responded with 2 words, or didnt respond at all, OR took 4 or 5 hours to respond. Hes been doing it for a long time now and i dont know whats up.
do you?
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ex boyfriend
Posted Tuesday December 2 2008, 4:46 pm
everytime i keep going back to my ex boyfriend who always keeps cheating on me and stands me up. and today we finally started talking again since the summer. i dont know if i should go back to him or not. this would be the third time i went back if i did.
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my ex
Posted Tuesday December 2 2008, 4:13 pm
so me and my ex have been on and off for a year.
It's been a pattern he would stop talking to me for 2 weeks (i wouldn't call text or anything!) and then he'd text me non stop begging for me back. I just don't understand he says he loves me but he always leaves me and does the single thing because he loves girls, he loves flirting, he just loves all the attention. He's never cheated on me though he's just sooo honest it hurts which is just as bad. He said he likes it but he LOVES being with me. But this last time was different we lasted with no break ups nor fights for 1 month and 1 week lol sounds pretty sad but i was happy about it. Well now he's back do doing his own thing but I'll know he will be back. . .i juts wanna know why h...
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i need to get a boyfriend
Posted Tuesday December 2 2008, 9:45 am
ok i like this guy and i need advise to help me get his attention and to actuall y notice me.
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Closure
Posted Monday December 1 2008, 9:01 pm
so the first really long term relationship i ever had ended a few months ago. Lasted a year and i finally broke up with the guy, it wasn't a conventional break up though, i said ' i think i need to end this' and he just said 'ok' and nothing else i said 'ok ' back and hung up. last time i talked to him. Then a very very good friend of mine who's been reciting bold declarations of love for me for the past three years finally asked me out and i, of course, said yes. At the beginning it was great, only now whenever he kisses me in a certain way or touches me in a certain way it reminds me of my ex. I might have left over feelings for him but i would never want to be in a relationship with him again, i mean look at how he took me breaking up w...
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i think he likes me, but i just cant tell!
Posted Monday December 1 2008, 7:32 pm
Okayy, I really like this guy. in class he sits next to me (we have assigned seats) and he is always turned sideways in his seat facing me. he touches my feet or leg sometimes with his, and i catch him looking at me a lottt! sometimes he looks away and sometimes he'll just hold my gaze for like 10 seconds and then look away, and sometimes he'll smile at me. he's always making jokes and making people laugh and alot of times, he'll look at me to see if im laughing. if we stand in a group of people, he stands close to me, and his arm touches mine a lot and he doesnt move it! SEE! HE FLIRTS WITH ME A LOT! the thing is, he's really outgoing and flirts with a lot of people, but i really get the feeling he likes me, and ive never seen him look at...
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second guessing ..
Posted Monday December 1 2008, 7:30 pm
well im a girl, and i have had many boyfriends. but latley i think .. differently about girls? and i start to get .. different feelings around them. does this automatically mean im gay?
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what's wrong with me?
Posted Monday December 1 2008, 7:16 pm
Ever since 7th grade, I am now a freshman, I cannot seem to like a guy for more than a month, give or take a few days/weeks.
Usually I find a guy that is either hard to get or really quiet, then I make him like me. Then I am excited for a couple days, but I get sick of the person about a week after they start showing that they like me.
I like boys to like me, but when they do, I don't care much for them. It's like a game that I can't stop.
I WANT TO KNOW IF THERE IS SOMETHING WRONG WITH ME! Does anyone else have this problem? Is it a phase? Will I finally find the right person and STICK with them?!?
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text
Posted Monday December 1 2008, 4:54 pm
17/f
Okay well me and my friend (lets call me "Joe"). Me and joe have been texting just as friends and everything for a couple of days now. I heard at the beginning of the year that he thought i was cute by his ex girlfriend. Anyways, he kept asking me (through text) all kinds of questions about my boyfriend and how long we have been dating, etc. Then after all that i asked him why he wanted to know all that and he said that i should break up with my boyfriend and go out with him. I told him i wouldn't do that but i was really sorry. Then he kept saying "oh, i was just kidding, i forgot to tell u i was just kidding, i don't want you to think i like you or anything." Was he being serious when he told me to break up...
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boyfriend troubles
Posted Monday December 1 2008, 4:53 pm
ok i have been dating my boyfriend for a little over a month n hes my very first boyfriend. im 16 by the way. yeah and my friend, lets call him TT told me some thigns about him that make me feel a bit nervous. im kinda not sure if i want to have sex before marraige but i definatly want to wait till after high school n TT knows that but idk if my boyfriend does. n TT was talking to me n he told me that my boyfriend once told him that life is about banging as many bitches as you can. that makes me realy nervous about if he'd pressure me into doing something i dont want to and if he'd cheat on me n hes reaaly dating me for only one thing. i dont even know if TT is telling teh truth, he did have a chrush on me and he was kinda heartbroken when ...
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