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I really want to ask him out, but I am not sure!
14/f-I really like this guy, his name is Ruben, and I have liked him since the beginning of the school year. He is really a great guy, but we don't get to talk much, and I really want to ask him out, but I am not sure how. And on top of that, I think he has a gf. Plus, I don't think he likes me because of how quiet he is around me. Idk though because when he is around his friends, he is almost as quiet as he is around me. I think that we would be great together, but I am not sure why I just can't seem to get close to him. When we hang out, I just freeze up, not like what I usually do around my guy friends, but just like freeze up and can't seem to find the right conversation and words to say. He is one of the sweetest guys I know and he is beyond cute. Should I ask him out or just stay from afar until I figure out how he feels(which may be impossible because one of my other friends has known Ruben since like 2nd grade and he still cant figure the guy out)? Should I talk to him and like try to get closer to him? I really don't know what to do! T_T
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I think you should try talking to him more. I know you might hear this alot but act as if you are talking to your guy friends. Unless you push them around or something but I doubt it. So just act as if you talking to your best friend or guy friend. I get nervous around the guys I like too but the only way you are going to find out if they will ever have the same feelings for you is to talk to them. First check around and find out if he does have a girlfriend. I wouldn't really want to go up to a guy and ask them out and hear them say, "sorry, I have a gf" But if you guys do start talking he might mention it or say he doesn't. So first thing you should do is start talking. Good luck!
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You never know if you don't try.
Just remember that if you don't feel comfortable around him now when your dating this might not change but become more akward and if you arn't finding enough time right now to talk to him chances are you won't when your going out either.
Ask around and see if he has a girlfriend. Find some way to get him talking.
I'd wait for awhile to see what happeneds but I would deffienly try to talk to him.
Remember you're only 14.
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