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second guessing ..


Question Posted Monday December 1 2008, 7:30 pm

well im a girl, and i have had many boyfriends. but latley i think .. differently about girls? and i start to get .. different feelings around them. does this automatically mean im gay?

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mysobriquet answered Wednesday December 3 2008, 11:00 am:
nope, not at all. it's perfectly normal to go through a stage in life when you question your sexuality. think about what kind of feelings you get. are they emotional, sexual? could you envision yourself in a relationship with another female? either way, your feelings are fine, and whatever you decide will be fine also. good luck ^^

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Pascal answered Wednesday December 3 2008, 1:30 am:
Nothing automatically means you're anything. I'm not sure how old you are, and that can play a huge factor in determining your sexuality, but for the time being just consider your own feelings. Is the attraction you feel to girls more physical or emotional? Or is it both? And do you still have these feelings for boys?
Let these feelings settle for a while, and see if you find yourself subconsciously envisioning yourself in a relationship with a girl, or if you think of yourself as gay.
Just know that there is nothing wrong with you or the way you're feeling, no matter what your sexual orientation. Straight women sometimes are attracted to other women, and the same goes for men. But if you are gay, (or bi), don't try to suppress it. We all deserve to be with whoever makes us feel comfortable and happy.

Hope this helps, feel free to ask me any more questions!
Pascal

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