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what's wrong with me?
Ever since 7th grade, I am now a freshman, I cannot seem to like a guy for more than a month, give or take a few days/weeks.
Usually I find a guy that is either hard to get or really quiet, then I make him like me. Then I am excited for a couple days, but I get sick of the person about a week after they start showing that they like me.
I like boys to like me, but when they do, I don't care much for them. It's like a game that I can't stop.
I WANT TO KNOW IF THERE IS SOMETHING WRONG WITH ME! Does anyone else have this problem? Is it a phase? Will I finally find the right person and STICK with them?!?
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nah. you're just a girl.
maybe you get bored because those guys just don't put for the same challenge you do, or don't stay interesting for long enough.
i'm sure when you find a guy that can keep your interest level up and/or continue to surprise you, you'll be able to stick with him.
but you're in high school so it's not really a big deal. just don't go having sex all the time!
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I went through the same thing in highschool. I'd like a new guy and start things up with him every 2 weeks and kept getting bored. It ended with me buy finding my right guy :) We started dating a little into my senior year and we've been together for over a year now.
I think for me it was I didn't get to know the guy as much as i should have before I started liking them. So a couple weeks into it, I was bored because they didnt end up being the guy i thought they were.
My boyfriend and knew each other for two years before we started dating and we finally realized we should be dating :-p. I'm not saying you have to be friends with a guy for 2 years before dating but try to get to know them better before you make it official to yourself and the guy that you infact like them.
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It's a phase. The way mine was broke was that i had gotten pregnant and my sons father cheated on me and i stayed with him for the baby put my self through tons of drama and stuff for nothing. Well after all that i relized i didnt need him there. A few months later i started dating this guy who was kind of controling and i didnt like it but i stayed with him trying to work things out. I now understand that you have to put your all into a relationship if you want it to work out. it never will if you give up on it. dont get bored with them just spice your relationship up. go have fun shopping, park, movies. dancing etc.
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