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fighting.
Alright.. basically me and my boyfriend have been together over a year, then he moved to florida to go to college, i lived here still in new york.. we tried to be together, he couldnt put forth the effort to even talk to me, and this was us trying to work our a long distance relationship. then we broke up, ididnt talk to him for a few weeks, then a couple weekends in a row i got drunk with his friends that still lived here, and ended up texting him and talking to him on the phone.. so ya, then he ended up getting into two car accidents down there, made me care for him completely, on account last year i lost my best friend.. i dont ever wanna let anyone out of my life i care for. he recently a month ago ended up coming home cause things didnt work for him there, we're together again. My feelings are different.. i think its cause i am really hurt, by him just leaving, the little things he did.. before he left things were basically perfect though. anyways... when ever we dont hang out, i want to fight with him, like iwant to. Even about nothing, its not healthy i know.. we've kinda talked about things..but i think in me, i feel like i fight with him cause the things he did to me, he deserves it, but hes treating me good..
idk really, what should i do?
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My best frinend was actually in a similar situation, but her boyfriend did'nt move, he just broke up with her, but a couple months later they went back out, and she had the same feelings!
Its not that he's doing anything wrong you just feel you need to yell at him or fight with him right?
well if you honestly feel things are good and you really have no reasons to fight, then i would try something to get your mind off that feeling. Because my friend did'nt and she would just fight with her ex about nothing at all, and he got sick of it and ended things again, she truly loved him and was sooo hurt. I think you should try and not think about what happened, but try to focus on whats happening now and have fun.
sry if it wasnt much help...
but hope it goes good!!!
*Bri*
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if you really don't feel things between you two are going well, than follow your gut. nothing is more true than that gut feeling. and if all you want to do is fight with him when he's not around, its just going to lead your life into stress. that's not worth it. just don't let go to fast if you think you guys could work. i know its confusing but your decision will come to you in time.
best wishes,
Jill
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