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my ex
so me and my ex have been on and off for a year.
It's been a pattern he would stop talking to me for 2 weeks (i wouldn't call text or anything!) and then he'd text me non stop begging for me back. I just don't understand he says he loves me but he always leaves me and does the single thing because he loves girls, he loves flirting, he just loves all the attention. He's never cheated on me though he's just sooo honest it hurts which is just as bad. He said he likes it but he LOVES being with me. But this last time was different we lasted with no break ups nor fights for 1 month and 1 week lol sounds pretty sad but i was happy about it. Well now he's back do doing his own thing but I'll know he will be back. . .i juts wanna know why he does this and how can i get over him I'm tired of crying all the time it hurts so bad. At first when he text me to get me back I'm the biggest hardass and i'll blow him off but he keeps on and on begging for me and he says the sweetest stuff and that it will be different. . .and even though i know it won't i cling to that hope and try it again. everytime he thinks he's going to really going to lose me he won't leave me alone. . .someone please help me
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I 100% agree with the person below!
I have a friend with a boyfriend like this, and its so sad to watch it happen over and over again!
Its so not healthy and you need someone who will treat you with the respect you need, and not leave to have some fun for a little while then when he decides, come crawling back!
I honestly think you just need to break things off for good. You will be so much happier not wondering when he'll come back, or when he'll leave again...
its ultimately up to you, but truth is, he's a DOUCHE and you dont deserve that!!!
*Bri*
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Ok first off. Hello?! He's a pig!
Lets list all the negative things first
1. He flirts with other girls
2. You've already broken up with him more than 3 times.
3. He's a player
4. He an attention seeker.
5. He doesn't text or talk to you for 2 weeks
6. Your glad because you haven't fought for a simple month and a week. (Not very long considering you've been on and off for about a year.)
7. He makes you an emotional wreck.
8. He's simply a jerk who really doesn't care about girls feelings.
Here's the good things
1. When your together everything is ok... for about what .. A week
2. He always comes crawling back with nice messages and stuff.
3. He says he "loves" you (but if he really loved you would he be putting you through this and leaving you so often) Didn't think so.
4. He says things will be differnt, to bad actions speak louder than words and from his previous actions we can predict the future... it's not a good on btw.
So all in all I'd say that you should break up with him.
He seems like a total jerk that doesn't know what he wants except a girl that he really doesn't care about to much and when he gets tired of her he moves on to the next one.
Dump him for good. No ifs, ands, or buts about it.
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