Well i have this friend that i've known for years, he's been with this girl of his for a very long time and even though she completely despises me, is a complete ditz, and couldn't come up with something interest and indepth to talk about to save her life , he's stayed with her, mostly out of the inability to break it off and the fact that he doesn't really care one way or the other since he wouldn't gain anything by leaving. needless to say he;s indifferent and putting just enough effort into it to make sure he still gets a fuck every once in awhile, besides she's too stupid to see through anything like that. He's told me a few times he's in love with me but we always agree its better not to really talk or act on those types of emotions since we're both in relationships. Besides i could never imagine being in a relationship wih him so hasn't a clue what i feel since i never intend to tell him. Well anyway today while i was in class he was playing with my hair, which he usually does, then he rested his hand on my shoulder and started rubbing his thumb across my neck, then he moved his hand and cupped my cheek and i heard him sigh from behind me. I don't really know what to make of this, so can somebody help?
letmetellyou answered Wednesday December 3 2008, 8:22 pm: One word.
Creeper.
Don't let him do this to you ever again. Or atleast not while he has a girlfriend.
If he doesn't care enough about some girls feelings to break it off with her before he goes around messing with other girls and flirting with them what makes you think this would be any different if you went out with him.
You can't be around him 24/7 you don't have his phone to look through to see who hes texting and you don't have his myspace password to see who hes sending messages to and what about.
If you can't trust him then you shouldn't go out with him and I can tell you right now he isn't a very trusting or moral guy when it comes to relationships.
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