17/f
Okay well me and my friend (lets call me "Joe"). Me and joe have been texting just as friends and everything for a couple of days now. I heard at the beginning of the year that he thought i was cute by his ex girlfriend. Anyways, he kept asking me (through text) all kinds of questions about my boyfriend and how long we have been dating, etc. Then after all that i asked him why he wanted to know all that and he said that i should break up with my boyfriend and go out with him. I told him i wouldn't do that but i was really sorry. Then he kept saying "oh, i was just kidding, i forgot to tell u i was just kidding, i don't want you to think i like you or anything." Was he being serious when he told me to break up with my boyfriend and since i turned him down, he is acting like this now? Or is it something else? I'm confused. He won't text me back either. What should i do and what should i think? Thanks!
as for what to do, i think you
should jusy think...is he reallly that good of a friend anyways? cause if you guys have only been talking for a couple of days maybe its not worth pursuing, plus you have your boyfriend anyways...but if you do want to stay friends with him, just talk to him in person, its always better that way anyways, cause you can't really hide things...
good luck
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Briea6624 answered Tuesday December 2 2008, 10:32 pm: Girl I think he was serious and when you told him you wouldn't break up with your boyfriend for him it really hurt him because he was hoping you would and he just was covering up the hurt by saying that he was just playing, what I think you should do is talk to him about why he's acting different and won't text you back.
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