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intense eye contact.


Posted Wednesday January 14 2009, 11:15 pm

so tuesday was my first day of this class. i sit in front of this really cute boy. i dont know his name sadly or anything. and im not the super sketchy stalker type.

but we spent our whole half an hour break in the cafeteria stealing glances at each other and making eye contact, you know the occasional smile. and it wasnt like he just happened to catch me looking at him. he was always looking first.

he just has these friendly eyes and a nice smile. its like he's teh kinda boy you wanna know just by the way his eyes express things to you. sappy i know, maybe even pathetic..

what i'm getting at is, is this common or am i completetly random. to feel connected or to want to know someone just by l...

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what do you get boys for valentines day..?


Posted Wednesday January 14 2009, 11:13 pm

i don't know what to get my boyfriend for valentines day. we've been going out for almost two months, and by valentines day it'll be almost three. i reeeally like him and i don't want to look stupid. what do you get guys for valentines day? any ideas?

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WHAT TO DO!!


Posted Wednesday January 14 2009, 11:07 pm

I like this boy and i liked him for a long time so far. And he knows i like him and stuff but thats not the problem. The problem is that now all these other girls are starting to like him and flirting with him, im not saying that they cant becasue we arent going out or anything. BUt you see i was the only girl that liked him that time and i had a good chance of talking to him but i couldnt because i was to afraid, NOw al these other chicks are getting at him and Im afraid that they might get to him before i do and i want to do something about it but im to shyy to. What can i do??

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Moving on (or) waiting for an answer


Posted Wednesday January 14 2009, 10:05 pm

Okay, my bff is trying to hook me up with her cousin who supposedly (fell in love with me at first sight at a football game.) I told her i wasn't interested but she is very persistent. she even gave him my phone# (but i don't really know the guy and we even don't go to the same school.) Anyways, he's been texting me every single day for the past week, but then he just stopped (and i was actually opening up and was going to give it a chance.) What does it mean when he stopped texting me? So can someone tell me what this means and what i should probably do from here? please!

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2nd base


Posted Wednesday January 14 2009, 9:50 pm

Hey i'm 15 years ikd and my boyfriend and i have known eachother for three years but only started dating two months ago. i know he's itchin to move to 2nd base but i'm kinda unsure. i mean only 2 months?? isn't that way too soon? and dont tell me it depends on how i feel i need a good non-slutty opinion of when you should begin to let your boyfriend touch you in that way

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I can't get over him,please take the time to read :)


Posted Wednesday January 14 2009, 9:07 pm

Well there's is this kid David that Ive been crazy for ,for about 3 ish years.We have been reallly good friends and he has admitted to liking me on and off.We've been having sex for about that long as well and I just had a feeling deep deep down he had alot of feelings for me ,he just didn't show them or wasnt ready to show them or just didn't wanna ruin things..so i continued having sex with him even though we weren't going out .Then I asked him if he likes me and what not and he said he does deep down and he knows one day we will date but hes just not ready for a girlfriend so I believed that.Shortly after ,he started talking to this girl who doesn't even live in our town and whatnot.He started talking to me less and less and acted like h...

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I really hate my love life.. another one of those love questions


Posted Wednesday January 14 2009, 8:28 pm

So. this will be REALLLLY long! Ryan and i (16) have been going out for almost 4 months now. We hung out basically every day for those 4 months.. I really love him, no other guy has showed such real sympathy for me. Ryan is one of the most amazing guys in my life (hes 18). We had sex and he took my virginity. That was the most amazing moment of my life. Well. Friday night, he was giving me a pissy attitude, so i was kinda upset. Well, apparently my "best friend" told him all this false stuff and he believed it. Well. We fought ALL weekend.. and i cried ALL weekend. that song mad by ne-yo. we completely related to it. Sunday night at like 8:23, he called me.

(he broke up with me because he didnt want a girlfriend r...

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I'm at a loss...I have no idea wat to do...


Posted Wednesday January 14 2009, 8:15 pm

I need help please...I really liked this girl and we went out on a date...We couldnt go out again for like a month because she's been busy with her visiting sisters....Now i found out she doesnt want to see me anymore...I know I have a lot to offer and she's a great girl but she didnt even give me a chance to show her the real me because we only went out once and it was a double date so it wasnt too personal...The first date wasnt bad and she was the one that was basically in love with me(at least thats wat her friends told me)...But recently she wouldnt pick up the phone or call me back...It hurts and I dont know wat to do..

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What do I do?


Posted Wednesday January 14 2009, 5:28 pm

Okay when I was a sophomore I was dating this girl that I'd been with for a long time. I think around 3 years. I met this girl named Daisy. Well I never cheated on Lorri or even thought about it. But I really grew fond of Daisy and we became really great friends. Today I dug out an old notebook me and Daisy kept together and I noticed she liked me back then but now she is dating this guy she's been with for two years and I know I still care about her a lot but when I saw her today and hugged her I couldn't tell her how I felt because I felt guilty. I don't want to cause a problem with our friendship or her relationship...what am I supposed to do?

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breakups are never easy especially if youve been together for long


Posted Wednesday January 14 2009, 1:28 pm

Heey. I'm 16 yrs old and a jr in HS. Ok so I met this really cool guy when I was in the 6th grade and we went out on and off throughout these years. Its crazy I know. We barely used to see eachother before but we recently got backtogether on november because he told me he loved me and I was the only one. So the last time we hung out was a week ago he took me to a resturant and we had a lot of fun. Then after that he never called me back. I called him lots of times and left him a text but he never wrote back. Then I called him on monday and he answered and told me that he had left his phone in his school and a lot of other excuses for why he didn't get to talk to we this whole week. So then I found out that he had blocked me from aim and he ...

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pregnant? possibility???


Posted Wednesday January 14 2009, 11:29 am

i had sex yesterday without a condom. but i had just gotten off my period about 5 or 6 hours before, and he didnt cum. (we were interrupted)

is it still possible that i could get pregnant?

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viagra


Posted Wednesday January 14 2009, 11:27 am

my boyfriend and i have had sex before, and i never noticed until yesterday that its really difficult for him to get hard.

i did everything in my will power that i could. nothing worked.

i just recently started giving him handjobs and he stays hard for a few minutes and then it goes down. it confuses me and frustrates him. i was wondering about viagra, or any other "boner medicine"

is it over the counter or prescription? and also, if its prescription, how am i supposed to get some because my boyfriend and i are both minors. :\

help?

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Caught in a lie.


Posted Wednesday January 14 2009, 5:12 am

There is this guy that I am sort of "talking to" and tonight he was trying to upload pictures on to his myspace, but he was having some trouble, so he asked me to do it for him. Okay, no problem.

So he gives me his username and password so I log in and start uploading his pictures. Well I become more then tempted to look in his inbox see who hes been chatting with. So I do and theres about five different girls that he's sending messsages to.

He calls them "hun" and "baby", "babe", "sweetheart", "beautiful"... the works. So heres my problem with the whole situation. Tonight we were having a sort of "deep convrsation" and I said "listen, y...

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Dream


Posted Wednesday January 14 2009, 4:55 am

Hi, i have a question regarding my dreams. I have a boy close friend
and we had a misunderstnding. We havent talk for 4 months until now.
I been dreaming of him for 4 times already but in my dreams we also
didnt talk. What do you think the message of my dream?

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Sleeping with guy who has a girlfriend


Posted Wednesday January 14 2009, 1:40 am

I'm a 21 yr old female who just got out of a 2 yr. relationship and I've finally found someone that can make me feel things I've never felt before. This guy is 22 I've known him since I was 5 we've been close friends on and off. He's asked me out in the past but I've rejected him. Well now that we started to reconnect We somehow found ourselves falling for each other.He is everything I've ever wanted but he has a girlfriend of 2 yrs. on and off. He claims they are doomed and he is trying to break up with her and he is also going to therapy for me to find a conventional way of breaking it off. They really do not get along, all they do is fight but he just doesn't know how to leave her. Well it's been a couple months and he is making progress...

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dont know what to do , i love him


Posted Wednesday January 14 2009, 1:37 am

ok
theres this guy i met over the internet 3 years ago his names Mark <3
and hes came down to visit numerous times
we like eachother alottt
the only problemm iss he lives in PA and i live in maryland hes 17 and im 15 i really want to be with him
should i continue on with this?? or should i just forget


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DREAM INTERPRETATION


Posted Wednesday January 14 2009, 12:14 am

Hi, i just want to know the meaning of my dreams. I have a guy close friend but we had a misunderstanding and we havent talk for a month. I dream of him 4x already...But in my dreams we also didnt talk...What do you think the message of this?

Please help me.Thank you.

Lala

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give up or give more?


Posted Tuesday January 13 2009, 10:16 pm

okay well i had this crush on a guy who plays hockey at the rink i play at 15/f btw and i told my friend that plays hockey with him to find out if he was talking to anyone or anything like that bc i didnt no bc we dont go to the same school, and she ended up telling him i wanted to no and idc about that but then he ended up texting me and whatever happend and we started ''talking'' and that lasted like 2 days and then he didnt text me and i went to one of his hockey games when he played my school and i texted him after to say good game and he was like thanks and gave me this whole big bullshit story about how sorry he was he hasnt texted me bc he deleted his texts and never saved my number and whatevs i didnt ask and i didnt care why he had...

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I don't know how to help my boyfriend...


Posted Tuesday January 13 2009, 9:48 pm

I've been going out with my boyfriend for 7 months. We're both 14 and he's my first bf. For a while things were great, but lately, there have been times where he's with his friends and me at the same time and he acts like a jerk. When I started talking to him about it, I realized that he has no self confidence whatsoever. He started saying that the only reason he has friends is because he's funny and he's funny by being a jerk so if he changed he wouldn't have any friends. Then the conversation progressed into the fact that high school is pointless becuase he's not smart enough, won't get into college, will end up with a really bad job or no job and will be a failure in life. He says he's made too many mistakes and he's just not good at any...

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stupid stubborn boy :[


Posted Tuesday January 13 2009, 8:18 pm

15/F 10th grade
This guy has liked me since the eighth grade and he's asked me out before but I said no. So at the beginning of this school year, after that, he knows I've never kissed a guy so he's all "oh well I could be your first."
And I liked him too. He's my neighbor! And I'm not used to guys liking me I guess. So I ask him if since we like each other, does it mean we're going out? And he's like "Nahh that's lame. How about friends with benefits? But we'd hafta do stuff to like, the extreme. But nothing you don't wanna do. Promise!" He totaly contradicted himself!
And now, he's doing it all over again. It's my fault, though. My friend noticed his attraction and I said something to him about it....

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