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give up or give more?
okay well i had this crush on a guy who plays hockey at the rink i play at 15/f btw and i told my friend that plays hockey with him to find out if he was talking to anyone or anything like that bc i didnt no bc we dont go to the same school, and she ended up telling him i wanted to no and idc about that but then he ended up texting me and whatever happend and we started ''talking'' and that lasted like 2 days and then he didnt text me and i went to one of his hockey games when he played my school and i texted him after to say good game and he was like thanks and gave me this whole big bullshit story about how sorry he was he hasnt texted me bc he deleted his texts and never saved my number and whatevs i didnt ask and i didnt care why he hadnt texted me and then after that night i didnt talk to him for about another week and then he had practice before me and he was on the ice and i pretended like i didnt and walked by and after my practice he texted me and was like hey i saw you today you looked real good and all this shit. and again after that day didnt text me again and i saw him at the rink again and i tryed to pretend i didnt see him and just walk by bc i didnt wanna talk to him, but he like came over and tapped my shoulder and was like hey whats up and i just said hey and started walking away and walked with me and we were talking and whatev i was kinda bein a bitch.. and that night he texted me and we talked about whatever and thats the last time i saw him or talked to him and that was a week ago and i dont know what to do bc i care about him but i feel like he only feels it nessicary to talk to me on days he sees me and i no people are gonna tell me to text him but i feel like he needs to make more of an effert before i do... and im sorry that was so long and i'd apperciate sooo much if you would tell me what to dooo bc i dont know im lost on weather to stop talking to him all together or try harderr..
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Maybe he just doesnt like to call or text. You could put yourself in places he would be, and instead of being a 'bitch' (your words not mine =]) talk to him, be nice, be yourself which is most important. Just see where it goes. It seems like he's keen when he sees you. So my advice... Dont stop talking to him, because it seems like he may like you. Just text him sometimes and ask him if he wants to hang out or something.
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It would be nice if he were to put some more effort into it to show you that he likes you, but a lot of guys aren't really into texting or talking on the phone. The worst thing you can do is get mad at him because you will only push him away. You are at the very beginning stages of a relationship and you don't want to send him running away because you are always angry at him. There are two things you can do. 1. You can start texting him more often. If he gets into the habit of hearing from you on a regular basis, he will notice if he doesn't talk to you for a while. 2. You can talk to him when you see him and tell him how you feel. Don't get angry, but let him know that you need consistancy in order to let yourself really open up to him.
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