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intense eye contact.
so tuesday was my first day of this class. i sit in front of this really cute boy. i dont know his name sadly or anything. and im not the super sketchy stalker type.
but we spent our whole half an hour break in the cafeteria stealing glances at each other and making eye contact, you know the occasional smile. and it wasnt like he just happened to catch me looking at him. he was always looking first.
he just has these friendly eyes and a nice smile. its like he's teh kinda boy you wanna know just by the way his eyes express things to you. sappy i know, maybe even pathetic..
what i'm getting at is, is this common or am i completetly random. to feel connected or to want to know someone just by looking at each other. because he's been on my mind for like almost two days now. how do you go about pursuing someone like in this situation. do i talk to him, or would that be weird. what if im the only one who feels teh connection/wants to get to know you better vibe and he is totally like back off.
im a very shy person by nature. but i'd really like to know more about this boy. he intrigues me and hes attractive to me.
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well there is no natural way to do this, so one day make a motive to sit by him at lunch, introduce yourself and say something like " i've been trying to get the nerve to talk to you for a while, i kind of noticed you, " then if he's intrested he will say he noticed you too, and your new relationship will bloom out from there !!!
GOOD LUCK
-LT
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this is very common. If you can feel a connection just by staring into his eyes, I'm almost certain that he can feel it to. sometimes words can't express emotion lik your eyes or body language can. Obviously you can feel a spark and since you are shy by nature, but you feel that you want to reach out to him is a very good sign. not just any cute guy makes girls feel this way. talk to him. he'll like it. it's not like he'll tell you to back off or be standoffish, he might be a little curious or skeptical at first, keep that in mind. But that would just be the result of him not knowing you. yuh know? if you want to know more about him, gradually talk to him and build a friendship with him. who knows what will happen, rbut from your intense feelings, i can tell this could become a good outcome for you :] and as the quote goes ... "if you can't get him out of your mind, maybe he's supposted to be there."
hope i helped! good luck ! xxo :]
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if you feel that drawn to him, then strike up a conversation. you don't have to jump right into "do you like me" just let the conversation evolve naturally. if the two of you start talking and he's interested in you, you'll find out in time. the first step to any relationship, just friends or more, starts with saying "hi."
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