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Love is confusing..


Question Posted Wednesday January 14 2009, 11:24 pm

Female,13
Breakin it down:

Guy number 1: Cute, nice, musical, loving, lives close and alwayz wants to hang out, LIKES ME

Guy number 2: Cutish, nice, flirty(in a good way, funny and likes to talk

WHICH ONE??

Number one is older than me
Number two is younger than me

Number one Likes Me
Number two i like him

Ive described the perfect guy before: Cute, Funny, Crazy, Fun, Romantic, Loving, Lives close, Musical, always wants to be with me, and if i chose how he looked it would just be cute curly hair and blue eyes.

Guy number one is the nice one and lives close and plays guitar

Guy number two is the funny, fun to be with guy

One likes me, number two i like him,

Guy number one is excactly how i described the perfect guy in the nice way

Guy number two is excactly how i described the perfect guy in the funny way

number one lives close

number two would be hard to date because it would be another boring middle skewl thang

but i cant ever talk to number one beacause he doesnt like carry on the convo
and it drives me crazy

number two can make me laugh and he gets me

Which one should i lean more towards??
one who i can hang with and he loves me and what not like a perfect love story??

or one who can i can have fun with but not hang out so much because he doesnt live around here

Either way it would be difficult reletionships

NUMBER ONE?!? NUMBER TWO?!?



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lexitaylor answered Thursday January 15 2009, 10:16 pm:
Okay, slow it down. Take a breath, and STOP anylizing. Love comes from the heart.

If it was up to ME I would pick guy #1 because i like Cute, nice, musical, loving, lives close and alwayz wants to hang out, type of guys.
...
but this is YOU. so keep this questions in mind:
Can I be with someone who doesn't live near me,
or cant carry out a conversation,
or might be a player (guy flirters usually are)

Just do what your heart would do.

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TwentySomething answered Thursday January 15 2009, 10:49 am:
Whoa whoa whoa! What's the rush? Are either of these guys moving to be foreign exchange students in Alaska any time soon? You make this seem as if you don't choose soon then both will poof and disappear.

Take your time, you're obviously torn about your decision so why don't you invest in talking to these guys more. Learn as much as you can and trust me, the more you get to know them, the easier your choice will be.

And don't be worried that you'll choose the wrong one. You're 13, you've got like 20 years of guy picking ahead of you!

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SilentOne answered Thursday January 15 2009, 7:16 am:
This will be one of my shorter answers.
Give the nice guy a go (number one).
He likes you, and you obviously like him a little to even consider him.
He sounds like the shyer of the two, and as such if you got to know him, he might carry on conversation better, and feel confident enough to make jokes.
Number 2 sounds like he has "jerk potential".
If you think about a relationship as "difficult", it's doomed to failure. Just let him know you like him too, and go with the flow.

-K

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