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stupid stubborn boy :[
15/F 10th grade
This guy has liked me since the eighth grade and he's asked me out before but I said no. So at the beginning of this school year, after that, he knows I've never kissed a guy so he's all "oh well I could be your first."
And I liked him too. He's my neighbor! And I'm not used to guys liking me I guess. So I ask him if since we like each other, does it mean we're going out? And he's like "Nahh that's lame. How about friends with benefits? But we'd hafta do stuff to like, the extreme. But nothing you don't wanna do. Promise!" He totaly contradicted himself!
And now, he's doing it all over again. It's my fault, though. My friend noticed his attraction and I said something to him about it.
Only now, he's asking for pictures. Just pictures in general. I said I'd give him a plain old myspace one and of course I'm suspicious because he can get it himself. But he wants a "a cute one, pweeeeeze, just for me"!
But I'm stubborn, and I'm saying no :]
Whaddya think? I REALLY want a boyfriend and that first kiss, but I don't want it to him. And I haven't had a boyfriend in two years! Can you help me :[
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Dont settle for second best. If you dont want him, dont have him. Simple. It sounds like he wants something specific from you. Just tell him you're uncomfortable with the way he is acting incinuating he wants to have sex with you. Because thats what 'friends with benefits' means. And you're not a slut! Maybe he's had some bad advice though and thinks girls like that kind of conversation. Tell him you wanna be friends, without benefits and see how he likes that. But dont settle for him if he's not what you really want.
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Well don't let it be him. He sounds like a dog with a hidden agenda. He hints at things seeing how far you will really go. It's not even worth it.
Wait it out for something real.
Someone who is willing to be with you and not just mess with your head.
This will totally take your feelings for a loop "friends with benefits" never work out. Have respect for yourself hun.
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