Member Since: January 14, 2009
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Last Update: January 14, 2009
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Hello, I like this guy that's truly amazing . I asked him to add me on my space...but he hasn't added me yet, and I want to know why. The friend request was real nice. I told him I liked him and I wanted him to add me so he and I can get to know each other. I was so nice ...but he went on my space 20 minutes after I sent the request...and he didn't add me. It, makes me so sad...because I like him SO much and I just want to be his friend...so he can see that were meant to be together.... my friend is his friend on my space...and she said we have a lot in common. So , please someone tell me why he won't add me. Or, what I said wrong or whatever ...thanks for whoever try's to help!!
- Mattlover (link)
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Maybe he really can't figure out who you are and doesn't add people who aren't his friend to start.
Don't take offense to it. He might have some reasoning.
Maybe try to message him. But don't tell him anything that could creep him out. Just say you want to be friends and he seems really interested and you would think you guys could be awesome friends.
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15/F 10th grade
This guy has liked me since the eighth grade and he's asked me out before but I said no. So at the beginning of this school year, after that, he knows I've never kissed a guy so he's all "oh well I could be your first."
And I liked him too. He's my neighbor! And I'm not used to guys liking me I guess. So I ask him if since we like each other, does it mean we're going out? And he's like "Nahh that's lame. How about friends with benefits? But we'd hafta do stuff to like, the extreme. But nothing you don't wanna do. Promise!" He totaly contradicted himself!
And now, he's doing it all over again. It's my fault, though. My friend noticed his attraction and I said something to him about it.
Only now, he's asking for pictures. Just pictures in general. I said I'd give him a plain old myspace one and of course I'm suspicious because he can get it himself. But he wants a "a cute one, pweeeeeze, just for me"!
But I'm stubborn, and I'm saying no :]
Whaddya think? I REALLY want a boyfriend and that first kiss, but I don't want it to him. And I haven't had a boyfriend in two years! Can you help me :[ (link)
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Well don't let it be him. He sounds like a dog with a hidden agenda. He hints at things seeing how far you will really go. It's not even worth it.
Wait it out for something real.
Someone who is willing to be with you and not just mess with your head.
This will totally take your feelings for a loop "friends with benefits" never work out. Have respect for yourself hun.
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so does shaving/plucking really let more hair grow back worse? (link)
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Shaving usually makes your hair grow back faster and thicker.
I don't really think plucking does
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so im a 17/f and im a senior. umm so there are a few girls in my grade and they have my lunch and one of them, Sarah, who use to be my friend when i first came here in 8th grade.and i smiled at her but then she was just looking at me and then she said something to her friends. and her friends nelma, chrissy, & andrea started staring at me and were talking about me. they were even staring at me when i got up because i saw them so don't sit there and tell me that i don't know for sure if they were talking about me because i know when someone is talking about me. well anyways nelma was also my friend last year, but then she told me that she was taking cosmetology class and they were doing a project where they give makeovers to people. and i agreed to do it but i realized later that she was lying and that she isn't in any cosmetology class and she just did that to be mean. these girls are really popular and so i know that they don't talk about me because they're jealous because they pretty and popular and im not. so yeah i hate it when people talk about me, and i know the school won't do anything because in the past they just told me to ignore people, which i still have a hard time with doing and sometimes ignoring doesn't work because that person still bothers me. and im very sensitive and i get mad very easily especially with things like this because I've been getting bullied since i was like in kindergarten. and i want to stand up to them but at the same time im kind of afraid that nelma who's kind of the leader i guess, might bitch me out or get the whole school against me, b/c she has power and can do that. so im wondering what should i do? please help. (link)
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Ugh.... This is a tough one but just be the bigger person honestly.
Don't let them know they get to you.
They are obviously shallow and need to grow up a little bit.
I mean, not everyone likes eachother it's normal but don' stoop to their level. They want you to and are trying to provoke you. It's not worth your time hun.
Forget about them and keep living. Life is about so much more than what other people think about you
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