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Matt!!!
Hello, I like this guy that's truly amazing . I asked him to add me on my space...but he hasn't added me yet, and I want to know why. The friend request was real nice. I told him I liked him and I wanted him to add me so he and I can get to know each other. I was so nice ...but he went on my space 20 minutes after I sent the request...and he didn't add me. It, makes me so sad...because I like him SO much and I just want to be his friend...so he can see that were meant to be together.... my friend is his friend on my space...and she said we have a lot in common. So , please someone tell me why he won't add me. Or, what I said wrong or whatever ...thanks for whoever try's to help!!
- Mattlover
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I can tell you like him a lot, but you don't want to seem obsessed with him and stalkerish. If he doesn't accept you as a friend right away, it's not a big deal. Maybe he was in a rush and didn't add you then, just relax. Don't seem obsessed with him because that will push him away, believe me. "So he can see that were meant to be together"...that could be seen as obsessive and kind of awkward for him. If you tell him you were meant to be together, he's going to look at you like you're a crazy person. Be nice and don't rush into things and make him see you as a stalker. You want to make him think you're nice and most importantly relaxed. Believe me, I've had my fair share of crushes, and being obsessed with the guy doesn't get you anywhere, trust me on this one lol. It's one step at a time, honestly. If it takes time for him to like you, then it's time worth waiting, right? Patience is a virtue.
I hope I helped <3 Good luck, girl!
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Maybe he really can't figure out who you are and doesn't add people who aren't his friend to start.
Don't take offense to it. He might have some reasoning.
Maybe try to message him. But don't tell him anything that could creep him out. Just say you want to be friends and he seems really interested and you would think you guys could be awesome friends.
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Maybe he didnt get it or maybe he just isnt sure what to say to you since you told him you like him i think he just needs time to think about it just wait a few more days and if he still doesnt add you then send another request or talk to him about it. good luck:D
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